My boyfriend gets so rough during make out sessions, what to do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been making out but he gets so rough. I've never done things like this before by I know he's had sex and been in several relationships. He often grabs my boobs really roughly, grabs my butt roughly, or kisses me really roughly. Sometimes this stuff hurts. Is this normal during sex, are people a lot more intense or is it just him. also how do I ask him to lighten up or slow down? He always wants to have sex but I feel like I always awkwardly end it by saying "no" whenever he tries taking my underwear off.

[Anonymous]

Say "gentle" when he gets rougher, and when he's doing what feels good moan and give him positive feedback so he does it more. If he's going farther than what you're comfortable with, say "hey, let's slow down" or move his hand away.

If he's not getting this, sit him down and talk about it.

[emerald77]

You should just tell him that it hurts you when he's too rough and that you wish he would be more gentle.

[moxygirl11]

You should tell him to slow down and what brings you discomfort

[Klaatu51]

i guess u should tell him 2 go slower then... xplain that thuis makes u feel uncomf!;-)

[Luttbicker]

shut up and do what the man wants and you will love it

[Asker]

Not really, the stud he does kind of hurts

[Luttbicker]

i said shut up and do what the man wants you'll thank me later

[smexiliciousss]

hahah it sometimes hurts but it feels good if you're comfortable with it

[skeptic007]

lol sex is gonna be fun

[Asker]

I'm not ready to haebsex and won't be for a while

[Anonymous]

I think he's more of a person who likes rough sex and stuff. tell him you aren't