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My boyfriend has serious issues in regards to his penis size?

I have told him countless times that he is big enough for me and that I like his penis. Is there anyway to convince him?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You've told him you like it.

    But, how forward with him are you? How, demonstrative of your like for his dick, are you?

    If you initiate more.. grab at it more.. moan more.. talk about how it is making you feel more..

    and.. if you do all of this already.. be straight with him.

    Tell him that you've told him countless times you like it, that it is perfect.. and his constant insecurity over it, isn't sexy or attractive. It is perfect. Relax.

    • This is good advice. With him being the size he is, I'd spend a lot of time in cock worship with that thing all the way down your throat. Tell how beautiful it is and that you can't get enough of it? Maybe not the ideal choice of words! LOL Seriously, worship the thing and eventually he'll get over it. Size isn't something men earn. We're genetically engineered for the size we are.

    • It is possible that he wants to be told it is small. I mean, some girls get turned on by being called a 'slut' during sex -- and others would find this offensive (and a mood killer!) It is possible he likes SPH.

    • @CuriousEddie then perhaps he should make that more clear lol

  • It's something he has to learn to be comfortable with on his own, just keep reassuring him that you like his penis as a little extra help for his confidence. But one day he'll learn to like his penis.

  • His lack of self esteem is his issue not yours. You shouldn't have to convince him after telling him several times.

    • So if my girlfriend has low self esteem about her body I shouldn't have to bother to convince her she's pretty after telling her several times? K thanks.

    • You should get a more secure girlfriend then.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There is, ask him when he felt that he wasn't big enough? If its a number thing or what? besides most men measure from the bottom of scrowdom to tip to get a bigger number, than as opposed to on top from back of penis to tip. my guess he is measuring the correct way on top and the number isn't as much as what other guys talk about. P. S. my spelling isn't the best , however the content, may be helpful.

  • Have him see a therapist then, it's not your burden to bear if he has insecurity issues that he chooses to dump on his penis. All you can do is tell him it's fine, and you have, so the rest is up to him. Now if he has consideration for you like you have consideration for him, he'll make an effort to get over it and stop being annoying and childish.

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  • If he is seriously bummed out by his dick size then he might be getting picked on it by guys in his sports team? I mean he must have compared it to other dicks.. although if your girlfriend doesn't matter I don't get why it is such a big deal to him.

  • pretend to be in pain? gag a bit when you suck it?

    • He'd just laugh.

    • depends on how subtle your pretense is. Yes, if you scream and cry, obviously he'll know you're faking. But guys pick up on tensing up or instantaneous retractions, even if they don't notice them consciously.

    • anyway, you could just tell him that his size is perfect for anal. that'll cheer him up.

  • Butterscotch candy may help.

  • Tell him to stop being such a bitch before you leave his ass for a big black guy.

  • How big is it?

    • 5.2 inches.

    • Perfectly average, we all want to be bigger, but it should be causing issues.

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