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Sexual Health My boyfriend hurts me during sex?
Anonymous
So, me and my boyfriend of 2 years have sex on a regular basis. Still as passionate as when we first got together. So anyways he slaps my face during sex, (never punches) and he can slap pretty hard. I don't say anything just so it doesn't ruin the moment. He always asks me afterwards if it was too hard, and I'll say yes. It's never hard enough to make my skin red or anything. And he has NEVER hit me during an argument, he is extremely against domestic violence. So I'm just wondering is this normal? Does he resent me in some way? Mainly asking the males but females feel free to comment! Thanks
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 18My guess is he isn't trying to hurt you (since he's otherwise not like that at all). It's more likely that he's seen it in porn and thinks that's normal. Or his ex liked it (some submissive girls like to be slapped). You never say anything so he continues to think it's okay. You just need to tell him you're not into it.
slap him back