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Sexual Health My boyfriend is mad at me for not sending nudes?
Anonymous
Ok I have sent nudes in the past to my two other exes (I'm aware of the risks/consequences but I never showed my face in the nudes.) Now my current boyfriend who I've been dating for 3 weeks is begging me for nudes but I don't want to send nudes anymore because I know that it's wrong and I don't wanna get in trouble. I told him that I don't want to send nudes and then he got mad and called me a bitch. He hasn't talked to me in 2 days. I have only dated 2 guys in the past and they both asked for nudes but never got mad at me for not sending them. Do all guys just want nudes from girls and that's it? What should I do about him? I'm 19 by the way.
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What Girls & Guys Said
28 36He feels bad your previous exes got something from you that he doesn't.
I didn't tell my boyfriend that I sent my ex nudes.
oh, well its probably goid that he doesn't know. That would of made things worse lol.
he could still know
I've never asked for them, and have only taken them of my wife or girlfriends who asked me to take them. And those were either 35mm film or Polaroids. I've never taken or received digital ones.
Tell him to fuck off and find someone who doesn't make this request of you. Or fing a dog, take a picture of its asshole, and send him that. Maybe that will get the message across to him. But it sounds like this relationship will be over soon anyway.
This guy does not sound like a keeper. Apparently he needs nudes to have a relationship. Oh no, he's not keeping anything private. You need to move on.
if he's mad at you and called u a bitch for not sending him nudes then you shouldn't be with him because that really shows his character
Try and compromise with you looking hot in a two piece.
He called her a *bitch*.
@BellePepper Don't you wish for a down vote about now? lol hahaha
@douride2 I really do.
Honestly I just didn't read the bitch part. I just focused on the main issue.
Here's the issue if you would do ____ for your last boyfriend and you won't for me. What does he have that I don't? Did you love him more? Etc. Get it?
I specifically do not want nudes of my girlfriend.
Both of us could be arrested for possession of child pornography, not even mentioning the social impact if people found out.
Plus, I very much doubt that she'd be comfortable with that, and I want to make sure she's comfortable.
3 weeks
3 FUCKING WEEKS AND HE WANTS NUDES?
DA FUCK? HAS HE EVEN HEARD OF INTERNET PORNOGRPAHY BEFORE?
Get rid of his bitchass.
I love this
He's pathetic... you should never feel pressured by your boyfriend get ride of him.
His loss not yours. Don't give in to him.
Fuck that dude, dont give in to what he is demanding.
A real man would not need nudes of a woman he loves.
Wow. I think you need to forget this question and realize what this guy has done. he has shown you the type of person he is. is that the kind of guy you want as a boyfriend? A complete scum bag. A guy who has no care for how you feel?
Don't if you don't
Wise words.
OK, can I see them... if I was your boyfriend, I would want to see them.
What was done, cannot be undone.
Forget about it...
Forget him
Do not dwell on him. Forgetting is actually quite difficult, because to try and forget you are conscioulsy thinking.. so...
he's an idiot just take them in person
It's a question that comes up in the male mind.
"Cor, It'd be lovely if I had some pics of this hawt babe to jerk it to"
But frankly, once the relationship ends, they're the first thing going on the net. So don't ever send nudes.
Bad boyfriend
That is one of the most useful things I have ever heard you say.
I love you
Well most guys will be upset if he knows you sent nudes to your previous boyfriends but not him. He will think you aren't really into him sexually.
He sounds like a bad person and I'm sure you deserve better. You have every right to not want to risk sending nudes and if he can't respect your choice that kinda a red flag sorry