Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, my boyfriend is obsessed with oral sex, how do I get him to make it about me.. sometimes?
ChelseaGlow Xper 4
So, I love my boyfriend completely, I'd do anything for him. We've been together for 5-6 months. I do his washing, cooking & cleaning without even batting an eyelid. This morning I cooked him bacon & eggs before he left for work. Anyway, I'm a generous lover, I recently worked out how to deep throat (much to his delight). He said at the start of our relationship he's fetish was oral. Fair enough, everyone has a button they don't admit they want pressed, I'm glad he was honest. My kinks are a little more.. dark, so I am fully open to fetishes. Do I want him to engage in my kinks? Absolutely not. But I would like to feel more connected. For the past month I've been going down on him everyday give or take, but we hardly have sex & when we do he cums way too early for me. I've tried vibrators & I find myself masturbating during the day. I just get sad because I want to feel intimacy and a connection, I'm a sensual girl, I need to know my man cares about me. Before you bring it up, "just tell him directly.." I have. I'm a direct person. Even through my tears, I've explained to him I need more sexually and he admits he's being, quote " a selfish piece of shit.." and he's just "tired from his job" - he DOES have a more demanding role now in comparison to when I first met him. I've asked whether there's a problem with me and he says absolutely not and when he is inside of me, he repeatedly tells me how "amazing I feel..". Despite this, he just goes back to coming home, getting on Xbox and at around 11pm he's begging me to wake up and go down on him. We did move in together quite fast and have spent everyday together since we met.. we just enjoy each other's company, we're both quiet, placid people who enjoy the peacefulness of each other. But.. I'm planning on going away for the weekend to work & visit family, I feel like if he has the opportunity to miss me it might cause him to desire me more? When I told him I was going away he looked kind of terrified and upset. Help xo
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(24)You spoiled him with blowjobs.
Day 3; still no blowjob.. boyfriend has gone down on me, we had sex and he even brought me a beer then turned off the Xbox to watch Kill Bill with me. I'm going to keep going with this..
Ha ha lol good for you. But he must be really craving for your mouth time. Just don't tease him for too long.
Yes it's been fantastic; finally caved last night on the ride home from dinner 😂 Can't resist car head
Awesome.!! Continue this 😉
What kind of man doesn't feel the need to satisfy his girlfriend? And last i checked fucking her vagina feels better than fucking her mouth.
I'd fuck the crap out of my girl if i was ATTRACTED to her, maybe you should get the idea.
He's attracted to me, I know that for a fact. He's always grabbing me when I'm doing housework or in the kitchen. Telling me I look hot and I catch him looking me up & down all the time. He gets kind of intimidated when I dress up and go out, he is possessive of me. He is attracted. He just lacks.. natural male aggression? His former girlfriend was abusive and it wore his down. I'm trying to inspire him to get his confidence & drive back.
Well yeah i bet. I see your nice chest. Fuck your boyfriend for only caring about his needs.
Forget the chest, have you seen her face?
@Archi3 what's wrong with my face?
Hahaha, yeah I got big old D's but anyway, I don't want to make out like he's a total monster, he's so beautiful but it's just frustrating me that I want to be with him more than he wants to be with me at the moment.
Lmao I've decided. Definitely crazy. That was not an insult... Read it over.
@Archi3 well I have two eyes, a nose and as previously stated, a functioning mouth. So I was like dude.. what's my face got to do with this? Nah I know I'm pretty, I get told I'm attractive a bit, not a paper bag job that's for sure but I don't let that stop me from being real, gentle and honest. Now, focus dudes.. let's get back to scoring me more sex with my boyfriend.. thnx xoxo
Love how you left the other pair out of that reflection. But yeah, you're right - back to the matter at hand