My boyfriend is upset I don’t give him head? He keeps hinting around to oral sex? What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[SomothErgai]

Just suck his cock for gods sake. And enjoy it. If it's truly that terrible for you then break up with him so he can find a girl who will make him happy. I mean seriously, how much do you actually care about this person if you don't want to do one of the easiest things in the world to make him happy?

Either get with the program and put that cock in your mouth or do the right thing and free him from a relationship he will never be happy in.

[all_hayl]

This is some of the worst advice that I’ve read on here. And that’s saying something.

[SomothErgai]

@all_hayl most helpful opinion and superb opinion would beg to differ with you there champ. Exactly what about the advice is bad? You don't think they should break up if they aren't making each other happy? The fuck is the point of that? Or you don't think she should try doing something that is very simple and easy to do for a person she presumably cares for? You don't care about giving people the advice they actually need to hear methinks. Better off just giving them some useless platitude right?

[all_hayl]

Someone giving you “Superb opinion” doesn’t necessarily mean anything. In other words, thinking that something is great advice doesn’t mean that it’s great advice. Sometimes people hear what they want to hear, or what *seems* reasonable, so the person says “that sounds like great advice”. Then years later they look back and realize “what the f*** was I thinking.” Ask me how I know. I’ve been down that road. The school of hard knocks is a bitch……. but some people have to learn the hard way. “ You don't think they should break up if they aren't making each other happy? The fuck is the point of that? “ That’s ostensibly not what’s happening here. He is upset because she’s not making him happy. That’s not love. That’s called being selfish. However……yes, if they’re not happy together, they shouldn’t be together. That should go without saying. But it sounds like that’s not necessarily the issue here. by the way, you yourself sound quite young and immature. You might be in for some “hard knocks” yourself. Anyways, moving on.

[SomothErgai]

@all_hayl you're argument amounts to "I don't like your advice, therefore I discount anyone else's opinion who does" way to logic there bud. And it was not simply a superb opinion. It was selected as most helpful too. By the asker. So obviously it's useful to somebody. And YOU even agree with my assessment you silly., silly goose. You don't have to like it. But you do have to accept it. Now, you say it's "selfish" to be upset that someone doesn't make you happy? I. A strictly logical sense yeah, fucking EVERYTHING you are capable of feeling is rooted in selfishness. The simple motivation to take an action of any kind is selfish. So, sure I guess but, fucking so? Your implication is that it is somehow a bad thing. Which doesn't follow. How the fuck is it a bad thing to want to be happy, rightfully expect to get happiness from your partner, not get that and then be upset for not having a reasonable expectation met? Not liking the way I say things only to end up agreeing with me is a pretty fucking retarded reason to call my advice the "worst" you've ever seen. You end up looking like quite the silly sally

[kellytheman]

Well if he is not giving you oral you shouldn’t give him oral. Maybe compromise with maybe tell him if he does something for you you will reward him giving him head. If your really against and keeps pressuring you about it might have to end the relationship.

[Anonymous]

How do you expect a relationship or marriage to work if you aren’t going to compromise on oral sex? Bit selfish if you expect him to give you oral but you refuse to do the same for him.

[Asker]

I never asked him for oral

[Anonymous]

What religion says you can't suck a guy's cock?

[all_hayl]

Move on. That’s what you should do.

[all_hayl]

by the way, half of the “advice” in here is facepalm-worthy.

[siferius90]

Give him oral sex.

[slatyb]

Why don't you give it to him? Has he offered to give it to you?

[WhitneySnow]

Does he do it to you? Why don’t you want to do that?

[Asker]

We haven’t had sex yet and he want eat me out. I don’t want to give him head and I don’t want him to eat me out

[WhitneySnow]

Tell him the truth, that you don’t like it

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

If you don't want to do it, break up with him. He's going to keep wanting it. There's a scenario where he could cheat on you because you aren't giving him the intimacy he wants. If you 2 want 2 different things, it's time to break up. Find a guy that doesn't want that.

[AviatorTom]

Is giving him oral something you definitely do not want to do? If so, don't do it. And if that is a red flag to him, he will break up with you. If you're willing to do it, go ahead and do it. It has nothing to do with whether you've asked him to do oral on you.

I dated a woman once (actually a few women) who hated to receive oral, claiming it made them fell dirty, but they loved performing fellatio on me.

[Dargil]

Tell him you won't and why.

[JacobJordan]

Is there a particular reason you don't?

[ProbablyClueless]

You have to decide if you're down to give him head or not. If you aren't, put your foot down and tell him that you don't want to give him oral.

It's not like you owe the man blowjobs.

[RHK36]

Tell him the the truth. If it's a deal breaker and he can't handle it then move on.

[DrPepper12]

Does he do it for you? Is there a reason you won't like hygiene? Are you anxious since you've never done it?

[DextroShade]

Suck his dick!

[jahaims]

Give head

[LEGENDARY4200]

Sit him down and tell him how you feel

[In_Trance]

Why not?

[Asker]

It go against my religious beliefs

[abc--123]

You should never do something you don't want to

[elaphe]

Give him head.

[Asker]

Why?

[elaphe]

It sounds like he wants it.

[all_hayl]

He probly wants a lot of things. This is what separates the boys from the men. OP’s dealing with a selfish little boy, not a man.

[Nice222]

Very simple tell him no and he don’t like that then break up with him.

[jjj101010]

What are your concerns? Have u done it before and not liked it, or is it nerves?

[jjj101010]

How often is he mentioning it

[Asker]

He mentioned to 2x and he want give me oral I said no and he want me to give him head I said no.

[jjj101010]

I went through a similar experience, drop me a message if u like. Happy to chat it through

[Anonymous]

in a relationship, men and women should be equal partners, but in the bedroom, the man is dominant. As long as he's not hurting you or humiliating you, give into hiim