My boyfriend just told me that he has chlamydia. Is it okay to be mad at him?

[Anonymous]

We’re watching lucifer last night and there was this scene where amenadiel was diagnosed for having chlamydia. Suddenly, my boyfriend said that he has it and i was so shocked because he never told me.
As i think about it, it makes sense why a few months ago he told me that my vagina didn’t smell nice and he’s having some white spots on his penis. Is it okay to be mad at him for not telling me this? I still can’t believe it because we had sex without condoms too so it’s possible if i have chlamydia as well. I’m giving him silent treatment since i’m so upset and don’t know what to say. What do y’all think about this?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You should be more than mad, should be moving on. If he's sleeping with others without telling you or wearing a condom, that's no good... Even if it's a new relationship, he should of told you or not had Unprotected sex with you if he new he had an STD...

[DrippingHoney]

What do I think? I think it means he's fucking someone else or you gave it to him which means you are fucking someone else.

[HeadCase1]

Maybe he didn't wash his hands before he masturbated. LOL!!!

[Drumlin2001]

You have every right to be mad. People have been prosecuted for passing on diseases without being honest about it

[Wise4myage]

Absolutely, because he should have told you immediately. Make sure he knows that's not cool, and not do it again.

[Chikky]

Leave him and go find someone else, since he pinned it on you already his not gonna admit to anything he did

[HeadCase1]

Most definitely. A buddy of mine went to the doctor because he had a STD. His doctor gave two bottles of an antibiotic. One for him and one for his girlfriend. She kicked his ass when he gave her the bottle. Guys need to be careful where they stick there penises.

[Chikky]

@Headcase1 exactly I would same thing to him

[es20490446e]

Damn, what a loser.

[worldscolide]

Um yeah I'd want to kick his ass for that, see a doctor, it's curable.

[In_Trance]

dump him

[CharlieDMX]

Yup.

Also, get yourself tested

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, did he get it from you?

[bassinguy76]

Wtf? Yes you should be pissed. Go get tested for hiv.

[Anonymous]

Yup totally fine.

[Anonymous]

Well firstly. Go to the dr.
Chlamydia can be cured unlike herpes.
Secondly, dump him.

[Anonymous]

If you had unprotected sex with him and he didn't tell you that he has it. That is a crime; and you should file a police report against him.

[Asker]

I think file a police report would be too much. I’m literally upset and mad. Silent treatment won’t be too much, right?

[Opinion Owner]

You should. If he did this to you how many other women has he infected? Or will infect in the future? He won't stop behaving like this unless there are real consequences. And the silent treatment is basically a slap on the wrist.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.