My boyfriend likes to stay inside me after having sex?

Question

After he cums he likes to keep his penis inside me and sleep. I don't mind but I don't understand why he's doing that.

Bananaman177 · Accepted Answer

A man has no other place in this world.

Outside, he is nothing. Just a slave to be beaten and exploited by others.

But inside, even the lowliest man can finally feel like he belongs somewhere. He is accepted. He matters. He is loved.

You must understand that men are much more physical, not just in our bodies, but our minds, our emotions, are very much linked to physical activities and sensations. When boys learn to read, for instance, their leg muscles twitch when they are learning the word, "run." Our emotions and feelings are similarly tied into our muscles, our reflexes, the way we move through space.

I think women see men as being physical INSTEAD of emotional. But in reality, we are physically emotional. When a man is having sex with a woman, a lot more is going on in his head and heart than what's going on inside his penis.

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

The intimacy. Not only does it feel amazing physically, we feel so close to you as well when we're inside you. Physical and emotional. At least I do anyway and I assuming this is why for him as well.

thedancingcookie20 · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend stays inside me afterwards sometimes too, but doesn't nap with it in bc we clean up ourselves. He says it's nice and warm and tight in there. Sometimes, he'll do this thing where before his erection goes away he tenses up his penis while in me. Makes me laugh cause it's so sensitive for me

AthleticMom · Accepted Answer

It's a love connection many know about ref. Out Of Africa (movie) Redford doesn't want to move when deep inside her = similar parallel

TazWax · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend does the same thing some times and Every time I ask him why he does he just laughs.

Jaye234 · Answer

LMAO... what?  He keeps his dick inside you, then goes to sleep!  To me that is weird and I've never heard of a guy who likes to do that.

Belorum · Answer

He just wants to be as close to you as possible.

_Amanda · Answer

Guys do that sometimes. It just means that he wants to stay connected with you, both physically and emotionally.

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

He loves the feeling of being so close to you. Where you are as close as you can be. It's actually very sweet.

Sabinath · Answer

Maybe it's cold?

Intraluminal · Answer

The sense of connection.

Nik1hil · Answer

i would love that..(not with you, but if i had a girlfriend) beside i think his habit of "Plugging smartphone into the charger" for charging overnight has gone to a next level..