My boyfriend makes excuses all the time to not have sex. Why?

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I am tired of my boyfriend not wanting to have sex and he always tells me he’s too tired. The excuses are old. Why is this happening?

Natehunter199 · Accepted Answer

Wow, i have never heard of a guy that allways makes excuses to not have sex. I really am mind blown. Damn, what a lucky guy.

My wife use to do that. I mean every singel time. It got to the point to where i stoped trying. After a while is asked my why i never try to annishieate sex any more. Told her it was because every time i do you shut the idea down. It lasted 5 years until she asked and filed for a separation a little of 2 months ago. Hope for your sake, the two of you dont end up down the same path. Im still scratching my head wondering what a man would reject having sex with his girlfriend/wife. Man, what i would have gave to have my wife ask me for sex at least once every 3 months back when we were together

djmzes · Accepted Answer

Simple Why should your boyfriend have sex with you only?  Remember a banana seed will always give banana fruit at the end. So look at the seed.

Berethor · Answer

Are you sure that you are not dating a girl in disguise? :)

Alyssa11 · Answer

I think you've got a bigger problem...

MikeTheBartender · Answer

He's not that into you anymore unfortunately

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Ask him if there is a deeper reason. Maybe he's going through something he hasn't told you about

bowenw · Answer

He could be he is cheating, masturbating a lot, is bored in the bedroom, needs counselling, or has a medical issue.

dutch69lover · Answer

Maybe he is bored in your relationship. Try spicing things up a bit in bed.

scott04sa22 · Answer

He's bored maybe the bedroom is not as hot when it used to be..

SCDivinitySoul · Answer

Perhaps he's no longer into you as much as he use to be.

honestGUY45 · Answer

I was that way with my ex. I really was and still am tired all the time. The thing with me was, I could definitely muster up the energy to have sex with someone else, (although I didn't) but not her unless I was wanting it bad enough. I just hadn't been attracted to her for a while and a lot of it had to do with not liking her fake ass trying to be something she wasn't on social media and around everyone that didn't live with her (our 2 daughters and me) and see how dysfunctional she really is. We got along great like roommates, but the lack of attention finally wore her down and she split.