My boyfriend thinks masturbation is cheating & he wants me to stop. Between boyfriend vs. Vibrator, shouldn't he know by now that he'd "100%" lose?

My boyfriend thinks masturbation is cheating & he wants me to stop. Between boyfriend vs. Vibrator, shouldnt he know by now that hed 100% lose?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Cheating is lying and going behind your partners back. In some relationships havinh sex with a complete stranger in the club bathroom is perfectly fine. In others watching an R rated movie with nude or partially nude people is cheating. It all comes down to the relationship dynamics, and the agreements between partners. Sounds like its time to have a talk about priorities and if he can't meet your expectations then it's time to move on.

    • Thanks for MHO

  • Some women can hold it off. I know a few that say they prefer the real thing. If I’m in a relationship, I don’t masturbate unless I’m on business in another state, but even then I’m thinking of my girlfriend/wife.
    I however can have sex 2-3 times a day. It’s gone down a couple since I’m now 40.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He shouldn’t be trying to control what you are doing with your own body.

    • her body belongs to God, God gave her boyfriend permission to control it

    • @unbeatable go away. You are gross.

    • He gave her permission to control his body too within reason. His concern over mb should be addressed with respect. You are being a bitch

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  • Then why are you with him? Sounds like you hold him in very low esteem.

  • Masturbation is not cheating.

  • If your vibrator offers more than the sum total of what your boyfriend offers then your relationship is dogshit, my friend. Try sticking two batteries up his ass and see if that helps? 🤔

    • You're a genius - "a stabled genius".
      My boyfriend thinks masturbation is cheating & he wants me to stop. Between boyfriend vs. Vibrator, shouldn't he know by now that he'd "100%" lose?

    • Thanks mom 😊

  • You don't sound like his type then.
    Break up.

  • He's a bit of an idiot, isn't he?

  • I bet he spanks the monkey himself.

  • Masturbation isn't cheating, he's an idiot.

  • Find another boyfriend

  • You two are not compatible.

  • I can see his perspective only if you choose to masturbate over sex

  • Masturbation is not cheating. Cheating would be like on a test, work, relationship, but masturbation is not cheating because you aren't cheating on anyone or anything so... Masturbation isn't cheating.

  • Just forget about him then and just use your dildo instead and be single.

  • That's exactly why he doesn't want you to use a vibrator. He'd lose.

  • Talk to him about it, tell him why you like it.

  • You probably shouldn't be in a relationship with another human being if you prefer a piece of plastic

  • He has no confidence

  • gotta love the stupid questions on this site

  • I think there's male sex dolls that have voice. You can buy one. Much more inexpensive long term than a boyfriend that doesn't pleasure you. :)

  • ok then leave him and be alone you cheater

  • Dump him, he's a fucking idiot

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