Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend told me he had spanked and used hair pulling during sex with his ex. Is he a misogynistic jerk?
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I'm very disappointed. I didn't see him that way. He tries to find excuses and all but I'm not really convinced... I don't really like how he justifies what he did.
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I said I wanted some space to think about it. Thank you everybody for not giving many interesting points of view (besides some of course).
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 56Lol somehow you sound jealous of someone's past pleasure.
Absolutely not. Not at all.
Yes, he is.
nowadays anything is misogyny
No, not “anything “
That's on the tame side of things. My ex used to enjoy when I slapped her in the face during sex, she found it really manly. Another girl was a complete feminist and couldn't be touched in any way too explicit.
This is really rapey lol
No she really liked it and wanted me to do it more. I think you have insecurities you're projecting onto other people.
No lol. Funny how people who love weirs stuff always want to reverse roles.
As long as it was consensual, I do not see anything wrong with that to be honest.
Usually guys do stuff like that if their dicks are small
Lol That’s a possibility
If his woman got turned on by that behavior (and, apparently, many women do produce extra lubrication when they are spanked and have their hair pulled,) and those things were done by consent, then what is your proof that he hates women?
He’s ok with the idea of manhandling women. That’s a red flag to me.
If he is doing it with their consent for the purpose of sxual arousal, it would not be a red flag in my opinion.
No, it's a fantasy. Why do you call every man a misogynist?
Are every man into this shit?