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Sexual Health My boyfriend took a photo of me giving him a blowjob without my permission. What should I do?
PearIyn Xper 5
yesterday i was over at my boyfriend's place and i was giving him a blowjob and he FREAKING took a photo of it without asking me. he used to always hint about it like "i wish i could take a photo of this and show you how hot you look right now" and i would always give him that "ew no way you're doing that" look. I'm sure I've also told him no before when he hinted about it. so yesterday, i was doing it and he was on his phone replying some texts. the reason why i found out he took a photo was because he forgot to off his flash so the flash came on. i got so angry and he apologised and deleted it. but of course, im not sure if he really did because he could have saved it somewhere else. he kept asking me to forgive him and saying that it was a really dumb thing to do and that he will never do it again. he also said he did it because i looked really hot and he wanted to keep it as a memory. i actually already forgave him - it's hard to stay mad at him for long but I'm still quite angry and offended when i think about it. it's so rude? what should i do? and in case y'all think he's just an immature teenager, he's freaking 26.
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5 30Forgive him jus let him know whos dick goes in whos mouth next time he wants to flash a pic. Also another reason to look up at him since u can see what he's doing and its also sexy af.
26 with an 18 year old? Sounds pretty immature to me.
i guess he's quite immature
You should explain him that somethings want some privacy. If it remain between us than its fine.
Disrespectful.. Any man who would threaten his relationship with a woman so pathetically doesn't respect the relationship seriously enough to invest in
he said he's sorry and that he didn't think about the consequences
the thing is, your not really giving him a "consequence" said no, he went against your wishes, and all you did was point your finger and shake it saying, "don't do it again." should dump him, to make him learn his lesson actually.
@smartmind4life isn't it too over to "dump him" just to make him learn his lesson. you're making it sound like dumping him will only be bad for him but honestly it affects me too. i love him.
Can I see how bad this photo is?
gtfo
I'm the same age, sounds like something I would do honestly lol. It was just the heat of the moment I'm sure. If you show him how much it really bothers you he will delete it if he hasn't already.
OMFG LMAOOO HE SAID EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID "it was in the heat of the moment and naughty thoughts came to my mind".
lol I did see that u two have been dating for just a month. I have been with my girl for 4 years so I mess with her and do shit like that all the time. Don't think I would've ever done that that early in the relationship.
so should i break up with him? i really like him a lot
I think what he did isn't worth breaking up over. BUT he is 8 years your senior, ever wonder why he isn't with a girl his own age?
maybe because he likes me? you can't control who you fall in love with right
Touché
Before having ANY kind of "activity" with him, ensure there are NO picture taking devices within reach
break up
Break up. He deserves better.
what do u mean
He wanna show of to his friends about it. That you're blowing him.
Its up to you if you will feel proud or stupid by let him friends watch you blew him.
Not okay. Leave him