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Sexual Health Guys, My boyfriend wants me to be submissive?
Anonymous
So me and my wonderful boyfriend have been talking about things lately. He said he's a dominant. He wants me to be submissive. Now, having said that, I am a virgin, never done anything sexual, ever. So he's talking strapping me on his bed, whips, blindfolds, spanking, hair pulling, sex, and he is apparently very experienced. Will he still like me if I don't know what to do? I'll be honest, I'm afraid. Of like the pain, but also giving up authority considering I've always been the one my friends come to to take care of them and help them, since childhood. What if I do something wrong, what will he do if I don't know what to do? Guys?
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What Guys Said
(20)You might try it out a few times to see if you like it. You can set limmits
Tell him you're not ready for anything kinky yet. Time to show him your dominant side.
if you don't feel comfortable doing that stuff you should tell him. but don't worry about being inexperienced he won't mind
if u are virgin for the 1st time that kind of sex doesn't looks right.. i think girl would like a more kind and passion sex and not dirty hard sex... but that is just my opinion what i know at the end?
If you are considering it it sounds like you might be a submissive anyways. If you are going to try it you need to ease into it though. Set limits you are more comfortable with and have a safe word. Like maybe leave the whips and spanking out of it. Or maybe just have your hands tied in a way you can still kinda move. He should understand.
You don't have to worry. If he's experienced, he will know what to do, and what to tell you to do. You don't have to know anything.
If you do not feel comfortable be honest with him about it.
he is watching much most porn movie, and he not care about to love. my advice is you search for another boyfriend.