My boyfriend wants me to lick his ass, I'm not sure if I feel like doing that. Am I overreacting?

I have done it once and he really enjoyed it. I'm not sure if I feel like doing that because it's a bit intimidating for me to do. I don't know, do other ladies do this for their man?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I have done it with an ex. But be mindful that this can be a sign that a guy is bisexual. So thats something that you would want to be on the lookout for also. It could start with him wanting tongue in his ass and then he gradually will turn into something more long and harder. Because he will enjoy the feeling. I dont think you should do it everyday because that takes away you being the submissive one and you would have to be more dominant. But if thats something that you enjoy doing. Then why not.

  • Ew... No...
    I would never do that, and that's gross and I will not put my mouth there. And he does not want my mouth there either.

    And I'm not sure where the overreaction is. You can do it 1000 times and if one day you say "I don't want to do it anymore" you are allowed to. I think it'd be nicer to give a proper reason but even then you don't have it.

    Why is it intimidating for you?

  • If you don't want to then don't, there shouldn't be any pressure to do things you don't want to - regardless of why not.

    I do it with my boyfriend after a thorough shower. I love it when he does it to me so after he got his crack waxed I returned the favour and it's something we both enjoy

Most Helpful Guys

  • It is highly subjective. We all have our own sexual predilections, what might appeal to some might not excite the other , if his pleasure state makes you happy then do it and letting you a secret since you would be doing a favour you would also have a leverage in intercourse

  • Ass liking is not necessarily something very very usual :D. I don't believe you are overreacting if you don't want to do it.

    Actually, whatever you don't feel like doing should not be called as "overreacting". You just don't feel like. Do not succumb to any pressure.

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  • No way am I ever going to lick anyone's asshole.

  • No thank you

  • I mean, I say don't knock it till you try it, but I certainly wouldn't feel like doing that.

  • It is called analingus, and it is enjoyed because that particular area has the second most amount of nerve endings to the genitals. If you don't feel comfortable that is fine, just tell him, be honest about where your boundaries end. If you get comfortable enough to push those boundaries then let him know... But those boundaries are yours not his.

  • Personally I think it's nasty but to each their own.

  • You are not! Licking an ass is stupid If you don't want to. Don't let him force you to do that! gl^^

  • What a loving request, all about you

  • As long as the ass is clean, why not, but does he return the favour? I love rimming a partners anus, as long as they are clean, and fingering his or her ass can help sexual pleasure, as long as the ass is lubricated.

  • What in the fuck. Fuuuuuck no. I didn't even finish reading your question. Don't be lickin' no bootyholes that shit's nastyy. And ya boyfriend might like the cock.

    • Im weak xD 😂 Your reaction: so correct and hilarious!!

    • Lol I'm just sayin', I ain't ever looked at my girl and thought "hey she should lick my ass". Wtf you better lick ya own ass.

    • I know right! I dont think anybody should lick anybodys shittox... nasty af

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  • No that ain't overreacting that shit is nasty lol

  • You don't like it? Don't do it.

  • My fiance does it for me, and I really enjoy it. But I wouldn't force her to do it if she didn't like it. Only do what you're comfortable with. :)

  • I think its a bit disgusting and no, you're not overreacting.

  • hahaha! one of the weirdest sex practices of the year 2016 *LOL*

  • u r not overreacting it is gross

  • don't like it? don't do it. since you've already tried you know how you feel about it. no reason for drama or anything else. just tell him if you don't wanna do it again and I'm sure he will respect it

  • we do it while we indulge in sex and head

  • Give the man what he wants. If you were a guy saying that your girlfriend wants you to lick her ass then people would be telling you to do it.

  • that sounds pretty gross, your not overreacting

  • if u dont feel comfy about it dont do it.

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