My boyfriend wants to cum in me from now on?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend said he doesn't want to do condoms anymore and go bare since Im on pill. He said his best friend cums in his girlfriend all the time and he wants that too with me. I'm on pill but I don't know I am not sure what to do.

[Anonymous]

Only do what you’re comfortable with. If you’re not ready to lose the condoms yet, then stand your ground. Don’t be pressured into anything. He should respect you and your decision. That being said, couples typically do stop using condoms when the girl goes on birth control. So it’s understandable why he wants to stop using them. I can tell you from experience, there will come a point in the relationship when you feel comfortable with him going bare. Just make sure when that happens, it’s because you want it too and not just him.

[Elliegirl]

This is a decision you have to decide for yourself. So your boyfriend’s best friend’s girlfriend let him cum in her. So what? You’re not her. Don’t let what some other couple does dictate your sex life. If you’re unsure about it, I suggest you don’t let him and keep using condoms.

[Drumlin2001]

If you have doubts (and the pill can fail), then stick to your guns and stay with condoms, especially in the week around ovulation. Dont let him try to convince you if ypu're not sure. No means no. If he can't except that then maybe he's not the type. of guys you should be woth

[Anonymous]

Its normal to let your boyfriend do it and it feels so much better so its ok

[Kimonono]

Don't do anything you are not comfortable with, thats one thing. Guys will always try to go bare, because it feels slightly better, but this small increase in pleasure is not worth your comfort. If you don't want to, then screw him (with a condom ;) )

[Nachowedgie]

Slightly? The difference is incomparable

[MrOracle]

Imagine being taken out to your favorite restaurant for your favorite dinner - only you had to wear a condom on your tongue during the entire meal. Do you think that experience would be just "slightly worse" than eating the same meal with a bare tongue? Because that's about how much difference there is.

[Kimonono]

@Nachowedgie @MrOracle Is that difference worth not being comfortable and forced to do something you don't actually want? Yeah, thought so...

[Nachowedgie]

Nobody said that. We're just correcting you on how incredibly incorrect your statement was

[Kimonono]

@Nachowedgie I'm saying that the difference in pleasure is small compared to the difference in comfort. Maybe I wasn't clear about that, but I think you guys completely missed the point of what I was saying. Comfort and Consent over personal pleasure, always. That should have been the take away, not one silly poorly worded line.

[rachel776]

i let guys cum in me

[sethtav]

Nice

[rachel776]

@sethtav i suspect it's especially nice for you guys 😏

[sethtav]

For sure since it feels great.

[rachel776]

@sethtav 💖

[sethtav]

So if we went out you will let me finish inside?

[rachel776]

@sethtav yes definitely 💖

[Andreapuss]

Why not do it?

[likelyOK]

As some one who has had it done before it has the nasty side effect of coming back out of you the next day 🤢 it slides out and it’s gross. Plus it’s not his place to say it’s your body tell him you don’t want to, if you want you can even use my example.

[Don-_-Don]

It's obvious that you lean more on the side of not wanting to do it, so just don't do it.

[KatherineJ]

No birth control is 100% effective. Besides that, condoms also help prevent STD’s. So save that for someone who you plan on being with for a long time.

[AustColombiangirl]

I let every guy I have sex with cum inside me. The feeling is absolutely amazing

[JVR4016]

Can we talk on pm?

[sethtav]

Nice. Lets go out sometime. ;)

[jakerson181]

Is the risk of taking a one night stand bareback and letting him cum inside you a real turn on?

[MountAverage]

You tell him you don't want ro and explain him why, obviousl. Or what's the issue?

[dudeinohio]

let him cum inside you.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

If you're on the pill and you're both clean that enjoy

[GreenGold1992]

take time to think about it

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Do you like cum?

[Anonymous]

What's the point being on the pill if he doesn't

[likelyOK]

The point is to use it for birth control as an alternative to condoms not for men’s pleasure.

[Opinion Owner]

Your kind of missing the point though, I didn't say for mens pleasure, but the point of the pill is so you can use it so he wouldn't have to wear a condom so it's pointless taking them if he's wearing a condom so have him either wear the condom and not take the pill or tke the pill and not have him wear a condom, both are birth control so pick one

[likelyOK]

A lot of women use it as back up like she is extra worried or cautious. Most condoms are safe but I actually had a scare before where it came off during sec after he came and it was scary

[Opinion Owner]

Ah I see your point but if you are scared in that sense, have you thought of getting that implant that stops you getting pregnant

[likelyOK]

I don’t use the pill, I don’t trust hormonal stuff in my body, I use condoms more for fear of stds even though I’m selective but also as birth control but you may offer the suggestion to her.

[Opinion Owner]

Well it is your body so you choose what is right for you and if your boyfriend doesn't like it well he will have to deal with it