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I've been dating him for 8 months and he told me that he wants to eat me out and he would rather give pleasure than recieve it. I would have no problem giving him head but the problem is that I don't like the way my vagina looks and I never had a guy eat me out before. I'm not sure how to get more comfortable with him doing that because he tells me how much he wants to but I don't know how to feel more confident about it. I'm just worried that he won't like it. And I'm also afraid that it won't feel good or that I won't orgasm from it. What do I do?
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14 14Do you have sex? I mean, if you can't even have sex...
We haven't had sex yet.
Then you've got quite a problem on your hands. Why do you even consider yourselves boyfriend girlfriend then?
Why? How long would you wait till you have sex?
The furthest we have gotten is groping and making out without clothes.
Generally, the third date is when you have sex. It's just a guideline though. I mean, what sorts of things do you do that are boyfriend girlfriend?
We go out on dates and go to each other's houses. We kiss and make out like normal couples do.
but isn't that what like, fwb's do, and hookups?
What im saying is, why is it any different than other things out there. What makes you boyfriend girlfriend?
No isn't friends with benefits when you just have sex and without any romantic attachment?
Because we love each other very much and sex isn't everything in a relationship. I'm a virgin and I don't mind waiting.
I dont think you can love someone after just 8 months. I just think there's something wrong here, I sense a red flag
And no, friends with benefits is a sham. it's a way of saying "im with you, but im not". It's a cop out
I know for sure that we love each other.
So after the third date we should've had sex even though by your logic it's too early to tell if we love each other?
In my opinion love takes years, I don't think you two love each other, or are even boyfriend girlfriend, I just see a red flag here
I hope you're not taking the opinion owner seriously. I've been with my guy for four months, and we've moved a pace that we've (I've) been comfortable with, and we're happy as clams. Haven't had sex yet, but have done oral and stuff. And we do love each other. Very much. I was really nervous about letting him go down on me, and I told him that, but it did help to have the lights off, and just let him make his way down there. I was worried that he wouldn't enjoy it, but he loves the way I taste and smell. I'm still a bit self-conscious about it, but it helps that he makes sure I know he enjoys it
4 months? Seriously? HA! yeah, that's not love
You should have had sex by the third date
So... You can't love someone after four months, but you have to have sex with them after meeting them three times? That makes tons of sense.
it takes years to fall in love, not months
Sometimes it does. Sometimes it doesn't. I don't believe in love at first sight, and I didn't believe that you could love someone after four months, but yet here I am. I'm not interested in doing anything drastic like get married or even move in together. But I do love him and one day, years from now, maybe we'll do those things.
Itll feel good, i used to be like you. I didn't like the way my vagina looked and i thought it was gross for him to go down on me. I was afraid that he might not like the smell of it too, so i didn't let him do it, but then he just forced into it and it actually felt good.
He won't care how it looks, just be clean and trimmed there, surprised he hasn't just did that months ago, that was part of regular sex for me right in the begining
We haven't had sex yet tho. How long would you wait until you try oral?
Not long after sex , I always did oral after I was comfortable having sex with her first not before, at I knew what to expect before going down on her