My boyfriend wants to play a stripping game with our friends. I'm not comfortable. What do I do?

Stripping here is only till the undergarments and not below.
He says it's the same thing as wearing a bikini to the pool but I don't agree with this since the vibe at a pool and the vibe when you're playing a stripping game with your friends is very different
He also says that it's only friendly and there are no horny or sexy things involved here

I honestly don't know how to feel about this since I made it clear more than a few times that I wasn't comfortable with this but he keeps bringing it up
We've had some history regarding him wanting to do shit with other people involved too

I feel weird talking to my friends about this
Should I break-up with him? We've been dating since 3 years and we're very dependent on each other
If I don't break-up with him I honestly don't know how to deal with the feeling and be normal around him again
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  • Mmm…be meek and do whatever he tells you. Or be strong and communicate your objections.

  • Say, "IM OUT!"

  • Don't do anything you don't like to do and if he doesn't respect you, then it's not worth it anymore with him.

  • The guy clearly it’s not a relationship type he wants to fk other girls I think you’re wasting your time with him.


    Relationships are only meant to lead to marriage!
    The fact that the guy excepted a relationship but still has a high interest of other girls means he doesn’t know what the fk he wants.


    Means you picked a boy and not a man.

  • If you are not comfortable with it don't do it luv, but if you have a little bit of curiousity you should try it

    • Honestly I'd be open to it if he wasn't involved but him being there will probably just fuck with my mind later, let alone fuck with our relationship

    • Why him being involved is bad luv? I thought you will feel more secure having your man around.

    • I'd just be worried about what he's thinking and if he's aroused by someone else, if I did it with him in a group Him even wanting to do it with other people, low key feels like mental cheating

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  • Don't play.

  • Say no

  • If it’s not ur thing then it’s not ur thing. Tell him if it’s a deal breaker then to move on, if not then he should drop it

  • go for it and have some fun

  • Be honest about it

  • That would be hot. But kinda weird. What’s the point if you only go to panties.

  • If you're not comfortable with it tell him. If he pressures you it may be time for him to find a new girlfriend. The stripping game may be a trick to get the girls undressed to their undergarments and then pressure them to get totally naked and have group sex especially if there are drugs/alcohol involved. I'd also be worried that someone may record it.

  • forcing your partner is never something anyone should do and you always have the right to say no to him and if he insists you should either convince him that you'll not take orders from him or just break up with him

    • Thank you, that's helpful

    • I hope he understands what he's getting himself into you should warn him before it's too late if it gets into his mind there's no way to get it out

    • Can't bother myself to lookout for him at this point xD He doesn't seem to care enough to respect my opinion, me looking out for him would just be dumb

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