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My Boyfriend wants to share me?

Last week he showed me a porn video and ever since he has been mentioning me to indulge in the act. He wants to share me with his gym buddies. He said he has already spoken to them and they are fine with it. He is waiting for my answer. The say he showed me the video, I jokingly agreed, but now I am scared. That would be just me and 6 guys including my boyfriend. All of them are extremely built and tall. What should I do? Please help me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds to me like you are more of an item of material to him instead the love of his life. I mean, I understand the idea of other guys thinking a friend's girlfriend is beautiful and wishing they could be with her but for the guy who is supposed to be your lover, meaning the one who cherishes, adores, and protects you, he should know better and stand for whats right, not turn his friends lose on you for their own gratification. Honestly, I would tell him NO. It doesn't sound like any of the 6 of them have any respect or even care for you at all. They just want a thrill of using your body and abusing you. Sex to me is taking you out and enjoying an evening on the town doing meaningful things, seeing Christmas lights, going to a theme park, going on walks, dinner, making you laugh, telling you I love you and meaning it, helping you feel warm and protected, and generally being a part of your life. A the end of the night because we become so close we end up having sex because we don't want the closeness to end. Sex is the ultimate expression of love. Your boyfriend and his friends don't love you. They are making a mockery of how you were designed, to be loved. They are misusing or willing to misuse that most amazing aspect of your body which is used to express his love to you or you to use to express love to the him. I would walk away and reassess your relationship. I would find someone who will love and cherish you the way you deserve and were meant.

    • It’s because of guys like you that I still have faith in humanity 😂

    • @Dali-chan Thank you, I try. Questions like this make me mad because no one who claims to love another person should put them in this position. Its just a common decency thing toward the girl he should love.

  • If you aren't comfortable, tell him so! He should respect that and you. If you're thinking about it but just are concerned, then talk to him and ask all questions you have. Make sure he's going to protect you etc. I don't know how long you've been together or how much you trust him, but if not long, or you're not sure if you can trust him with something like this, then don't do it. This is HIS fantasy and nothing more. Also, I question his respect (feelings) for you, and how much you'll respect yourself if you do this? At very least, give it lots of time to think over. Be 100% sure you want to do it, if you do indeed go through with it. Not to mention it's dangerous. STI's etc. You don't know their sexual history or if these guys are clean? How many other gang bangs have they been in? I wouldn't do this if I were you honestly.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you like the guys and they're suitable and clean and safe and you get excited by the thought even though you're nervous... feel it in your gut and go from there. It's a great opportunity. If you decide yes, make it really special for yourself and set any rules you want and use condoms and dress sexy and get into it. If you decide no, then no and move on. Good luck!

  • Trust me he doesn't take you serious no guy is going to wife a girl that took six of his friends. You're a toy to him not a girlfriend and he's gonna seem like a boyfriend just to get you to agree with the orgy but it's up to you you're pretty and he's just trying to show you off that's all you're a human sex doll not a respected woman in his eyes

    • Oh my.. You are saying the truth..

  • Just say you changed your mind babe or tell him you thought it was a joke... it’s your vagina anyway lol.. I’m sure he’ll understand.

    • Lol. It is.. I should just say no

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  • Don't do it...

  • isn't it still unclear to you?

    Unless previously brought up by you as something you wanted to do,
    Why would any sane normal man share her with 6 other guys like a sex object, if he respects, cares for, adores and likes or maybe loves his lady?

    I think you have got your answer.
    And you probably know what he thinks of you

  • Ask him if he’s really serious and tell him you were only joking to agree. See what he says.

  • Good to see you dumped him. Seriously this guy doesn’t even deserve someone to love him. You will find better honey

  • Run away.. 😂..

  • Why would you jokingly agree? I'd advise you to tell him you don't want to do it. If he forces you or anything you should probably dump him and make a report.

    • It was a joke and he seems to have taken it seriously, I just wanted him to get over the video. But it has gone serious

    • Talk to him. Tell him you don't want to do it.

    • If he listens, I will talk to him

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  • I would hope you would have the self-respect to say "hell no."

  • That's fucking raunchy. If I were you I'd break up with him as I couldn't ever imagine other guys having sex with my girlfriend. But on the flip side if you're into it go for it, more power to you.

  • And all of this comes from someone with the username aisha_sugarlips. Lol i think you re actually intrigued and it fascinates you somehow and you re just checking for people's opinions but you kind of made your mind up. Haha just follow your nature. But this is just my opinion xD.

  • Well u can either go through with it and have a different experience or u can just say nah

  • Say You aren't interested in it He would definitely Accept it If Not Then Get Rid of him Too

    • So you are telling me to agree and see his response, what if he breaks up with me when I say yes?

    • No wait i didn't said you to agree at all that isn't something you should be doing

    • i said tell him you aren't interested in Having sex with his Buddies and those douchbag

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  • There is no way in hell I would want six or even another guy having sex with my girlfriend. There is no way I would respect a girl have sex with this many guys all at once. From what it seems u don't sound like u would respect yourself after so tell him hell no💪

  • thats hot

  • I don't know, um, maybe say NO?

  • Get 6 girls for these boys

  • Don’t do it. If your boyfriend cared about you he wouldn’t ask such a thing of you.
    Do you fancy six guys down your panties

  • If you want tbat go ahed... if its not suitable for you tell him no and throw his ass

  • Ok, I going to help. Get rid of your boyfriend. The dude truly is pathetic and doesn't care at all about your well being and health.

  • If You Have Fantasy For That Kind Of Thing Enjoy And If Not Beat The Shit Out Of Him As I Dont Think You Are A Prostitute Made For Sharing.

  • Leave him... come to me

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