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Sexual Health My boyfriend wants to watch me give another guy oral sex, is this weird?
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I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. We have a good relationship and our sex life is also good. Lately he started to mention that it would turn him on if he could watch me as I give oral sex to another guy... I have idea what to do with this. I want to please him and to be honest i didn't say NO but said i would think about it. I just have no idea how we would get into a situation that this could even happen. Should i actually consider doing this? I am worried that it would cause problems after we made this happen. Any advice from someone who actually went forward with this?
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12 41Get rid of the guy
This seems to be popular these days and it wouldn't he hard to find another guy who was into it. No pun intended. But it sounds like you don't like the idea, so it was wise to say you will think about it. And yes, it could cause problems.
I just don't understand why he wants to see me do this with another guy. I would freak out and be jealous if i had to him do anything like this..
Yeah, I could never ask a girl to do that, but maybe he saw it in porn? I get the feeling you should just say no, but talk to him about it.
I will talk to him about it. It could be just a fantasy but what suprised me was that he didn't bring it up during sex - dirty talk - but he mentioned it during a normal conversation..
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No one here can tell you what's best for you, only you know what you're comfortable with and what not.
What exactly is it that you're worried might happen?
It is quite common for guys to get turned on watching his girl give oral to another guy. It's not weird. If you are not interested in doing it tell him that you don't feel right about it. You only want to be with him. If you decide to go ahead and do it, set boundaries with him and the guy you give oral to.
I personally see no fascination with such, but to each their own. I wouldn’t do it personally. Could cause a lot of unnecessary drama. People get jealous really quick with one another and if you cannot control your emotions, forget about it.
Now, is your boyfriend willing to have it be any guy or of his choosing?
How do you get yourself in that situation? You could do it one of two ways. He’s in the room with you and you most definitely would need to ask the other guy or your boyfriend is watching from another room or a peephole two way mirror etc. and other guy has no idea.
yes it is weird.
He's trying to see if you're willing to try different things to keep the spice in your sex lives. What he's fantasizing about and what he would actually want once you started sucking on another man's cock might just be two different things. You have to have a serious talk about it. Would you be open to something like that?
Never done anything like this, but it doesn't seem right, to me. If he respected you, this sort of idea wouldn't even enter his mind.
Well its a kink for guys to see hid girl go down on a guy. Also they like women being raped and to watch.
It can cause problems. What if he prefer you to do it. What if you love it and not come back to him.
Even he agrees with it its still chreating. maybe he's hoping to make it an open relationship so he can cheat on you.
Do you really want to do it? Also will it be safe? Is the guy going to be checked for std? Its really not a safe world.
Yeah it is weird, your boyfriend is not a man at all.. he's a cuck who wants to watch and witness his terriotery is getting invaded by other stranger males and he likes the idea of these stranger males fuck his girlfriend. He's a cuck who's getting turned on by feeling weak/submissive compared to other guy and can't compete him while he's invading his space and marking his terriotery on his girlfriend by force.
Sorry but someone had to say that, dump that half-man.
You have a lot of growing up to do kid 😂
Is he small
No common fantasy
Have u consider a goryhole
That tells me he doesn’t respect you.
Him watching a guy giving you oral would be more normal, like taking something into the relationship between you two, but this is like giving something out, which is indeed weird.
if you both are okay, go ahead with it, doesn't sound weird to me.
Okay i will do it then
I think you will have fun
Yes, but it's your choice if you partake in it.
Also "worried that would cause problems" means you like the idea.
Just tell him that, you like the idea but you are worried it would cause problems.
But I'll warn you that a cucking fetish is usually a sign of self-loathing.
You could probably go ahead and do this if you want to without causing any great harm to your relationship. It seems like your boyfriend just has a fantasy of watching you do this with another guy that would probably get him really turned on.
I will thank you
That is cuckold fantasy..
I read about this just now. It seems like more people actual have this fantasy..
What about sex?
What do you mean?
I mean does your boyfriend like it if you have sex with another man too?
He only mentioned oral sex
Everything will start like that and finish with sex..
What if boundaries are clearly communicated? I really don't want to lose him or make him want to find his pleasures elsewhere.. i am open minded when it comes so sex but this seems next level.
Sex have too many different fantasy..
Probably gay