First of all your making a mountain out of a mole hill here.
Doing what comes naturally with horny 19 yr old bf/gf has no bearing on you being a good person or not. Doubt his father thinks any different about you either.
His father was 19 once and pretty sure he knows what goes on with bf/gfs at that age so it was no great shock to him and your pussy looks just like the one he sleeps with every night as well so nothing new for him.
He is probably just as embarrassed as you and your boyfriend are so that would be a draw.
Obviously if you and your boyfriend are going to stay together it is pretty certain you will have to see his family (father included) many more times.
Take your bfs balls out of your purse and let him have them for awhile, then the two of you make a point of talking to dad and maybe apologize for startling him. Sure all will work out for the good.0 3 0 0The fact that you got caught being fingered doesn't change you as a person, in all honesty he knows what a vagina looks like, and yes awkward as it is to see his son's girlfriend, he knows these things happen it just sucks that you got caught. If you really feel awful about it, you could apologize and move on and hopefully you guys will just laugh about it. I know how embarrassing this can be (not the exact situation) but at the end of the day whats done and done and you'll move on ;)
0 3 0 0this really should get MHO
Firstly you are not a bad person; just a normal woman in a normal relationship and secondly his dad will be more embarrassed about this than you - unless he mentions it in a speech at your wedding.
If I was you in the future though I would always put the lock on just in case. Keep having fun.0 1 0 0well said.
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Well you learned a valuable lesson. Time as one person said already will make things better. The shock and anger usually wears off and then the practical and trying to make sense of it come in. Depending on how long you've been together I'm sure that he had an feeling sexual things was going on. It is up to you if you want to say something or not. It will come up eventually though as it's going to be a huge elephant in the room.
0 0 0 0You are a good person. You just have sexual needs, like all good people. If you feel compelled, go to him one on one and apologize for not locking the door but that surely he knows you and his son are sexually active, at least to some extent. Ask him to let it go and get past it because you respect him and are not willing to go on with all this awkwardness.
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5 15Go about life as normal and do not acknowledge that anything happened. You can be sure that 'dad' won't.
You haven't done anything wrong, and something like that happens to everyone eventually.0 0 0 0Its normal. Having sex (or doing vaguely sexual activities, in your case), doesn't make you a bad person. People have sex. Its a fact of life. His dad is an adult and he knows that. In fact, he was probably expecting it as soon as you and his son started dating.
If he is mature enough, he wouldn't let it effect him. He would just ignore it, stop thinking about it, and not let it effect the way he sees you and his son. Your boyfriend told you "its been awkward" probably cuz he is feeling the same way as you right now, and he is the one making it awkard because he was embarrassed. If you both stop being embarrassed, treat his dad like normal, act normal, then it won't be awkward. Its only awkward when you make it awkward.0 1 0 0This is probably not the first time he has seen female genitals. In fact, he has a son. I am pretty sure he doesn't think too much of it. They should just high five each other and be in their way.
1 3 1 1Hahahaha yes love it when this happens to teens. That'll teach you to get all funky monkey in your room without the door locked
All joking aside, they don't care and are happy you little kids are getting your freak on. Especially in a small town, it's cool0 0 1 1I'm sure his dad knew something sexual was probably happening if u 2 were dating. Yes it sucks that he saw but just try and get over it. Doing sexual things does not make u a bad person so don't think that anyone will think badly of u.
0 0 0 0Time will help. The dad knows what is up.
Lock the doors!2 2 0 0Nothing. Forget about it. His dad will. Happened to me. Nothing ever came of it.
0 1 0 0Oh trust me... the fact that he didn't make a big deal when he walked in on you, means that he isn't that bothered.
Don't stress yourself out over this! :-P0 0 0 0This isn't a big deal. His dad fingered girls when he was a teenager too.
Great reputation? He's not going to go around town telling people that his son fingers his girlfriend.0 1 0 0Hopefully his dad still fingers girls 😛
Goddammit just lock the damn doors
1 1 0 0dad should have knocked first.
0 0 0 0When he was fingering you inside his home with an unlocked door you were not embarrassed right?
0 0 0 0I'm sure he's seen a woman before and he wants to forget that even happened. its not the end of the world
0 1 0 0Just ignore it and go on with your life. You are just fine.
0 0 0 0why you did not tell ur boyfriend to close and lock the door before fingering on you?
0 0 0 0sorry but this is hilarious. I wouldn't worry so much about it. it happens you will get over it, and now you will know to be more cautious next time
1 3 0 0This is nothing to be embarrassed about, what you guys were doing wasn't wrong, its a normal human occurrence. It will be awkward with his family at first, but as time passes it will all be okay.
0 0 0 0Don't do that at his parents' house...
0 0 0 0That's a finger licking good story
1 3 1 0just pretend it never happened.
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