My brother spies on me when I masturbate, what should I do?

I am 28 and my brother is 18. I was topless with my hands in my pants masturbating with light moans, when I saw my brother watching. He didn’t know I saw him and I finished. I don’t know what to feel? What should I do?
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Also it was like 3 in the morning and I was in bed thinking everyone was asleep
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Also I am sleeping in the basement behind a sheet, there is no door
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  • Hmmm... This is a bit of a situation...

    Shit, I mean... the whole incest aspect is something I'm not really able to navigate for you (and yea... I realize that's kinda definitely central to your problem).

    First. If it's only been the one instance of him being inappropriate with you and sexuality, I'd say DON'T confront him.

    Reason being... presumably he'd be embarrassed to find out that you found him out, and it just sounds like a pretty awkward talk that wouldn't actually get you anywhere... You'd be pissed off and weirded-out, he'd be defensive i would think. Either way, unlike most situations, I don't know if "talking" is the way to go on this... but I might be wrong.

    I don't have any sisters, so I really don't know what the dynamic is like. I guess there would be some 'natural curiosity' about the opposite gender... maybe?

    Like I can see a CURIOSITY aspect (as opposed to enjoyment aspect) might be partial motivation... possibly? but

    Then again, he's 18. He knows about this thing we call the internet... I'm sure he doesn't have to watch hi sister masturbate to see what women look like while doing it...

    If he wasn't motivated by curiosity... which I'm having trouble convincing myself he was... that does have some... unsettling implications for you.

    I don't think I've ever been at such a loss as to just what the fuck to do in some situation.
    I genuinely feel bad for you. It's not like I'm holding some genius solution to your problem in reserve, but if you wanna chat feel free to send me a message. I can't even imagine what must be happening in your head right now. Otherwise, seriously. Good Luck :)

  • Was this a one time occurrence, or has it happened more than once? If it were me (I was you), I wouldn't do anything unless it's really bothering/bothers you? Chances are very good it wasn't on purpose, and even if it was, likely just curiosity for him and nothing else to it (I wouldn't read anything else into it, because there's most likely nothing there. Guys are visual and like to look, it may not "mean" anything). But if it continues, or it's been more than once, and it bothers you, then I'd simply talk to him, or, if you don't want to embarrass him, then make it so there's no way he can see you next time.

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  • He has already seen you masturbating. You continued with your body knowing he was standing and looking. I may infer that you were inwardly wanting to show him, which you did. Let him see again (and again) and better to expose your pussy to him so that he gets a full view.

    • Thanks for MHG.

    • best answer for sure ;)

    • @bananathunder Thanks.

  • You're 28 not 18 so talk to him like adult n tell him it's not ok, install a door or just behave like nothing happened. A guy at 18 probably keep on staring if he sees things for free so talk to him.

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  • Lock your door in future. And consider moving out.

    • Lock the basement door

  • If you don't want him to watch, you should be more careful.

  • Next time he does it, tell him to come in if he wants to watch. You obviously enjoyed it since you continued masturbating after you saw him.

  • If you were topless, and you continued, then you apparently wanted him to watch and you were enjoying it. Guess you need to deal with that.

  • Since seeing him watching didn’t seem to bother you, what are you really asking?
    At 28 maybe think about getting your own place? Or at the very least, buy a door with a lock to the basement.

  • I think it's clear what should be done. Tell him that it was hella inappropriate to do that.
    Set limits and stuff

  • Cool story bro, I believed it 👍

  • Tell your parents or beat him up

  • Stop working on brazzers movies sets?

  • Where exactly were you doing it? Anyway my brother has walked in on me and I have walked in on him, but at my house we just act like we didn't see anything

    • That is the expected natural reaction

  • I’d keep doing it but leave your thong on so he doesn’t see your goods. Then leave your thong next to the bed. He will be so thrilled when you step out the room.

  • if he has never had a spouse of his own. most likely only knows about sexual stuff from online / friends / school.

    was most likely courteous about the moans you were making.

    also possible he finds you attractive.

  • Bad trolling

  • I think it’s just as strange for you to keep doing it knowing he was there. Did him watching turn you on?

  • Go all Brazzers and hop in his dick. Either that or tell him to fuck off. Your pick.

  • Kick his ass since he's a sicko. Then have him kick yours since you share that label. Is this him?

    My brother spies on me when I masturbate, what should I do?
  • Shut up, pretend nothing has hapen and if you whant to make shure if he get you're point ot stay silance just make the sign whit you're hand to close the zipper to his mout. If he will say something to you talk whit him, don't be like (i'm28 i do what i whant). Escuse youreself and be more careful next time. Take him a juice if she stay silance, or a chcolate something to say "thanks for keeping the secret"

  • private discussion is needed!

    • Always if stuff gets weird and especially at that age.

  • im sure its normal. How did he act around you after?

  • This didn't happen.

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