My date caught me fucking my coworker. How to set things right?

[Anonymous]

I have been going on a couple dates with this guy from work who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. He's a really sweet guy but maybe a little shy sometimes. The plan was that he'd pick me up at my place last Tuesday, but I completely forgot. We arranged it the week before but I didn't write it down, thinking he'd remember me anyway since I see him almost daily. Now, because of some rearrangements in he office, he works at a different floor and I didn't run into him anymore, so I completely forgot about our date. There is another guy now on our floor who I don't know to well yet, but he's really handsome and flirty. He asked me to have dinner together that Tuesday and I agreed because I thought I'd be eating alone anyways. The place we wanted to go was closed, so I invited him to my place and I'd cook. I usually don't do that but I was really horny, he was definitely up to it, and so we fucked. Of course, now I got a call from my actual date. I said I completely forgot and he said he noticed, since he came to my door, heard me fucking from the street, checked through the window and saw me fucking that other guy (who he of course hates). I know it was stupid of me but I didn't want to hurt him. In fact I think he might have a better shot at something serious with me. The other guy was just a hookup for pleasure cause we were horny. Besides, it's not like me and him (my actual date) are exclusive. So how do I best apologize and tell him I do want to go on more dates with him? Is there a way I can set things right?

[SleepingSnorlax]

Nah you fucked up
Then you really fucked up when you were screaming so loud he could hear you from outside
Then you really really fucked up when you fucked infront of your window
Then you really really really fucked up when you forgot to close the blinds
And if at any point the fuck buddies dick fell out of your twat and was visible to nice guy then you really really really really fucked up especially if he was big then that would earn you an extra "really"
Leave him alone you really fucked up

[CHARismatic110]

Lmaoooo

[SaraLa]

Best answer ever lolll

[cavmanier]

That would be a deal breaker for me. I'd want a girl more sexually conservative than to be having sex with another guy when it date was planned. I have a feeling you're trolling though. It was a guy from work and you left the front window open? Sure.

[Asker]

My house has a front garden and the window wasn't open. There was just a little crack through the blinds.

[cavmanier]

I would try telling him "I think he might have a better shot at something serious with me. The other guy was just a hookup for pleasure cause we were horny." A lot of guys would be repulsed by the situation though. Would you want to see your future boyfriend having sex with another girl at the same time he said he would take you out on a date? I would have lost a lot of respect for a girl doing that.

[SolitaireBond]

Personally I don't think you have a hope in hell's chance of putting this right.. Truthfully in many ways he's a lucky guy, having found out before it's too late, exactly who and what you are.. You'd best hang on to this fuck buddy of yours for now.. Or at least until you move on again.

[BuchitaBuchys]

You're a dumbass. Plain and simple, leave him alone. You ruined your chances so just keep having sex on first dates with other guys and let him find worthwhile woman.

[altair212]

well said

[Toad-1]

yes!

[BuchitaBuchys]

@altair212 @Toad-1 thanks.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Haha, I got MH. Noice

[CheerGirl38139]

Seriously. "heard me fucking from the street"

ROFL

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OK.

[dartmaul15]

you'll have a better luck with a married gay dude.

Seriously, just don't bother. There's nothing more to say than that really.

[lumos]

This sounds so made up.

[Dandeus]

I smelled troll at "I think the guy I'm dating has a crush on me." Like, no shit?

[lumos]

@Dandeus right? And they just happened to be fucking so close to the window that the guy was able to see them from some weird angle? And even HEAR them? Lmao this whole question just reeks of clickbait and some weird fetish.

[MadeInAmerica]

I doubt that can be set right. I know I wouldn't want to talk to you after seeing and hearing all that.

[Curmudgeon]

You blew it! Good luck straightening out that mess!

Rule 1: Don't make promises, real or reasonably implied, that you cannot keep.
Rule 2: "Don't F*** (sexually) where you eat (economically).

[nhocloverock]

There is no chance you could set it right. Don't bother apologise tbh, i don't think the guy would want to have anything to do with you.

[fauchelevent]

I don't think that you're gonna be able to fix that, dude.

[NJ_Casanova]

"how do I best apologize and tell him I do want to go on more dates with him?"... So you don't want to see the Nice guy anymore? I think what you did.. got the point across.

If you still want to see him and not the hook-up.. I think you have a long road ahead of you to gain his trust back. Next time be up front as to if you still want to date other people/not exclusive as most guys automatically think that after a few dates.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

making a 3some of course

[BertMacklinFBI]

yeah goodluck with this one, i really mean it lol.

[Mesonfielde]

You can't. The end.

[Mesonfielde]

Seriously who has hookups while they are dating someone, lol. Cheater in the making.

[Cosytoasty]

Wow... I've heard of women doing some fucked up shit in my time but this...

[Cosytoasty]

In fact, it sounds so perfectly timed and fucked up even down to trying to fix it, I really want to believe it was written for effect.

[joeb73]

i don't think there is a chance to set it right. the damage is done. i have a few other things to say but to stay nice i will leave it at this.
i hope you take this as a learning experience so you don't make the same mistake in the future.

[Marinepilot]

joeb73 I blasted her ass !! Fuck that piece of shit !! She'll end up with a bunch of bastard kids living in a trailer park.

[CHARismatic110]

So he just heard you from the street and decided to look in your window? Cool, because that's not creepy. But anyway, just leave the guy alone. You obviously aren't that interested in him since as soon as he switched floors you forgot about him!

[cavmanier]

"You obviously aren't that interested in him since as soon as he switched floors you forgot about him" Exactly

[abundantlyrich]

Do you keep the windows open when you bang someone? sheeshh.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lmao!!!

[VirginiaBeachBum]

Sorry, but that sounds like a bridge already burned.

[Elkindtg]

There's no best way. You fucked with a guy you knew he hates. If you were thinking on something serious you should have at least chose someone he didn't knew or someone he didn't have an issue with. You chose the worst person for that day so just leave the guy alone.

[rene12345]

Oh shit, just tell him ypir not interested in yhe other guy, it just happened

[TonyRyan]

Haha, shitty...

[ConsultantIsBack]

So basically sloots gon Sloot lol what a surprise
@thebravelion @ordinarygentleman

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Smh seriously sloots gon sloot

[TheBraveLion]

@OrdinaryGentleman it'll happen man :/

[Nomad69]

Tell him as you were just "dating" and not boyfriend and girlfriend you didn't feel like you were "exclusive" at the time and you hooked up with this other guy but you see potential in him and want to see him again if he can get past this. Some guys really hate that. Good luck I was the hookup in one of these situations and the other dude as far as I know woudlnt see the girl again after. :)

[JSmuve]

"I usually don't do that..."

Buuuuuuullllllshit. Girls who do this sort of shit often say this so they don't come off as a slut. It's like the biggest lie out there right after "I'm not ready for a relationship".

Hopefully this guy finds a chick who doesn't so easily forget about him.

[Kuraj]

"I know it was stupid of me but I didn't want to hurt him. In fact I think he might have a better shot at something serious with me."
Please don't even.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

"I didn't know going on a date with someone makes us a couple. Everybody that's single has a date with one person, then with another person and then back with the first one. It's just a date. "

Try explaining this to him. If he agrees, fine. If he doesn't, he's right in his own terms and let him go.

[TheHooptyMiata]

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I call slut!

[Throwaway420]

hahahaha, no your pretty much f*cked with him.

at leazt I know my life doesn't run THAT BAD!

[DBAOracle]

I don't think so... I firmly believe it's over. You set up a date with him and when you were supposed to be with him, you were having sex with another dude... I highly doubt he would get over that.

[Blueeyes81]

Not going to happen, but best of luck.

[TheFlak36]

"I usually don't do that" said the slut.

[zagor]

Change you name, get an unrecognizable facelift and pretend to be someone else.

[johnanamoly]

There is no going back, just end it, admit your mistake and move on. You obviously dont like your boyfriend enough to not cheat on him, count your blessings and be thankful you're not married.

[MasterofPlebs]

LOL GTFO. You stood him up and instead fucked another guy? You´re finished.

[WillTXm]

Wish I was the guy. you are my kind of girl. i am a cuckold and would have loved you being naughty

[daremetwo]

You can't fix being a dumbass.

[crazyperson19]

Hmm here is another story of a "woman" doing something like that. You damn women cry about guys cheating on you "women". Yet you girls do the exact same thing.

[BuchitaBuchys]

So because she cheated, that means every woman deserves to be cheated on? You're too old to have such shitty logic.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lol your username fits you well. Crazy indeed.

[altair212]

@BuchitaBuchys well the answer is yes but us men dont think like women so the answer to us is no

[Mesonfielde]

@altair212 what

[Marinepilot]

You're one vile piece of shit ! You're not worthy of even the lowest form of contempt. You fucked up chicky and you deserve all the bad karma that can come your way. I'd never, ever speak to a slut like you. You're the kind of bitch who fucks bad boys, gets knocked up and left with bastard kids to raise. You need to get the fuck out of the world because you are one stupid ass bitch, Your actions more than prove it. You can't set things right. If he's any kind of man he will write your sorry ass off. FOR FUCKING EVER !

[jwhit]

You don't deserve another chance with the guy. You may have forgot about the date, but there's no way you forgot about the guy you knew was interested in you. But apparently your memory was good enough to remember a dinner date with the new hot guy and if things fell into place you fuck him the first chance you got.

[Tiger288]

Yea maybe it over.

[Nn3usn]

Ouch.. Yeah I would bet unless he's really in to you he will not want to date you after that.

[jmmmfi2]

Congratulations your cold hearted and a slut

[dudeHR]

yes, go once again to fuck him

[Anonymous]

Lol if only people weren't actually despicable, these situations could be avoided. Hope the person you fucked that you don't know was worth losing the guy you felt had a chance for something serious.

[Anonymous]

Go to the Jerry Springer show

Jerry... Jerry... Jerry... Jerry... Jerry...

[Anonymous]

Tell him you'll fuck any guy who comes along, that you think he's really hot and that you really want to fuck him too while you're at it. Leave no hard cock unfucked.

[Anonymous]

I Can See Where His Feelings Could Be Hurt, You Did Get Your Pussy Pounded By Another Guy On The Same Night You Had A Date With Him.
You Admitted Your Fault For Not Writing Your Date Down, Remembering ETC.
But As You Mentioned It Was A Date, Neither Of You Had Decided Or Agreed You Two Would Be Exclusive, A Date Is A Date, Not A Relationship.
I Think If You Explained Your Fault As Not Intentional, You Just Forgot Due To Changes In The Office, Not Seeing Him In The Office Anymore And Apologize For Fucking This Other Guy, And Be Sincere When You Say This To Him, If You Mean What You Say, And Say It With Feeling, You May Have Chance To Repair It.
Tell Him You See You Two Being Serious, The Right Words Mean Everything.

[Marinepilot]

You can't be serious.

[Anonymous]

I don't think you really did anything wrong not like you were committed to him

[Marinepilot]

You little beta faggot !!! How can you say that? That's the worst disrespect I can think of. She's lucky he didn't kick her ass ! Which she richly deserves !

[Anonymous]

Damn no fuckin shame. It probably wasn't the first time you fucked someone on the first date.

[Anonymous]

You cheat on him and you want him to forgive you, what is wrong with you?

[Anonymous]

Just don't fuck anymore anyone how walks within a five mile radius of you :) :)

He'll consider you totally un-dateworthy now; kinda like that other guy, because he now thinks of you as him cum dumpster

[Anonymous]

You don't apologize, you'll only make it worse if you spoke or even make eye contact with him.

You didn't do him wrongly, but you did ruin your chance in getting with him.

[Anonymous]

yea ur worthless he deserves better dont even try

[Anonymous]

There's not much hope for that...

[Anonymous]

So you just fucked a guy you 'don't know that well' while you are dating someone else? There is a name for people who do that.
So you were horny; why didn't you fuck the guy you were dating?
Now you've really hurt him. Good job. Not only is he not important enough to remember a date with him, he got to see you whore it out with someone you don't know. Wow.