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Sexual Health My date caught me fucking my coworker. How to set things right?
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I have been going on a couple dates with this guy from work who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. He's a really sweet guy but maybe a little shy sometimes. The plan was that he'd pick me up at my place last Tuesday, but I completely forgot. We arranged it the week before but I didn't write it down, thinking he'd remember me anyway since I see him almost daily. Now, because of some rearrangements in he office, he works at a different floor and I didn't run into him anymore, so I completely forgot about our date. There is another guy now on our floor who I don't know to well yet, but he's really handsome and flirty. He asked me to have dinner together that Tuesday and I agreed because I thought I'd be eating alone anyways. The place we wanted to go was closed, so I invited him to my place and I'd cook. I usually don't do that but I was really horny, he was definitely up to it, and so we fucked. Of course, now I got a call from my actual date. I said I completely forgot and he said he noticed, since he came to my door, heard me fucking from the street, checked through the window and saw me fucking that other guy (who he of course hates). I know it was stupid of me but I didn't want to hurt him. In fact I think he might have a better shot at something serious with me. The other guy was just a hookup for pleasure cause we were horny. Besides, it's not like me and him (my actual date) are exclusive. So how do I best apologize and tell him I do want to go on more dates with him? Is there a way I can set things right?
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Wow, I didn't know going on a date with someone makes us a couple. Everybody that's single has a date with one person, then with another person and then back with the first one. It's just a date.
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 46"I usually don't do that..."
Buuuuuuullllllshit. Girls who do this sort of shit often say this so they don't come off as a slut. It's like the biggest lie out there right after "I'm not ready for a relationship".
Hopefully this guy finds a chick who doesn't so easily forget about him.
"I know it was stupid of me but I didn't want to hurt him. In fact I think he might have a better shot at something serious with me."
Please don't even.
"I didn't know going on a date with someone makes us a couple. Everybody that's single has a date with one person, then with another person and then back with the first one. It's just a date. "
Try explaining this to him. If he agrees, fine. If he doesn't, he's right in his own terms and let him go.
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I call slut!
hahahaha, no your pretty much f*cked with him.
at leazt I know my life doesn't run THAT BAD!
I don't think so... I firmly believe it's over. You set up a date with him and when you were supposed to be with him, you were having sex with another dude... I highly doubt he would get over that.
Not going to happen, but best of luck.
"I usually don't do that" said the slut.
Change you name, get an unrecognizable facelift and pretend to be someone else.
There is no going back, just end it, admit your mistake and move on. You obviously dont like your boyfriend enough to not cheat on him, count your blessings and be thankful you're not married.
LOL GTFO. You stood him up and instead fucked another guy? You´re finished.
Wish I was the guy. you are my kind of girl. i am a cuckold and would have loved you being naughty
You can't fix being a dumbass.
Hmm here is another story of a "woman" doing something like that. You damn women cry about guys cheating on you "women". Yet you girls do the exact same thing.
So because she cheated, that means every woman deserves to be cheated on? You're too old to have such shitty logic.
Lol your username fits you well. Crazy indeed.
@BuchitaBuchys well the answer is yes but us men dont think like women so the answer to us is no
@altair212 what
You're one vile piece of shit ! You're not worthy of even the lowest form of contempt. You fucked up chicky and you deserve all the bad karma that can come your way. I'd never, ever speak to a slut like you. You're the kind of bitch who fucks bad boys, gets knocked up and left with bastard kids to raise. You need to get the fuck out of the world because you are one stupid ass bitch, Your actions more than prove it. You can't set things right. If he's any kind of man he will write your sorry ass off. FOR FUCKING EVER !
You don't deserve another chance with the guy. You may have forgot about the date, but there's no way you forgot about the guy you knew was interested in you. But apparently your memory was good enough to remember a dinner date with the new hot guy and if things fell into place you fuck him the first chance you got.
Yea maybe it over.
Ouch.. Yeah I would bet unless he's really in to you he will not want to date you after that.
Congratulations your cold hearted and a slut
yes, go once again to fuck him