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Sexual Health My date caught me fucking my coworker. How to set things right?
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I have been going on a couple dates with this guy from work who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. He's a really sweet guy but maybe a little shy sometimes. The plan was that he'd pick me up at my place last Tuesday, but I completely forgot. We arranged it the week before but I didn't write it down, thinking he'd remember me anyway since I see him almost daily. Now, because of some rearrangements in he office, he works at a different floor and I didn't run into him anymore, so I completely forgot about our date. There is another guy now on our floor who I don't know to well yet, but he's really handsome and flirty. He asked me to have dinner together that Tuesday and I agreed because I thought I'd be eating alone anyways. The place we wanted to go was closed, so I invited him to my place and I'd cook. I usually don't do that but I was really horny, he was definitely up to it, and so we fucked. Of course, now I got a call from my actual date. I said I completely forgot and he said he noticed, since he came to my door, heard me fucking from the street, checked through the window and saw me fucking that other guy (who he of course hates). I know it was stupid of me but I didn't want to hurt him. In fact I think he might have a better shot at something serious with me. The other guy was just a hookup for pleasure cause we were horny. Besides, it's not like me and him (my actual date) are exclusive. So how do I best apologize and tell him I do want to go on more dates with him? Is there a way I can set things right?
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Wow, I didn't know going on a date with someone makes us a couple. Everybody that's single has a date with one person, then with another person and then back with the first one. It's just a date.
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 46Lol if only people weren't actually despicable, these situations could be avoided. Hope the person you fucked that you don't know was worth losing the guy you felt had a chance for something serious.
Go to the Jerry Springer show
Jerry... Jerry... Jerry... Jerry... Jerry...
Tell him you'll fuck any guy who comes along, that you think he's really hot and that you really want to fuck him too while you're at it. Leave no hard cock unfucked.
I Can See Where His Feelings Could Be Hurt, You Did Get Your Pussy Pounded By Another Guy On The Same Night You Had A Date With Him.
You Admitted Your Fault For Not Writing Your Date Down, Remembering ETC.
But As You Mentioned It Was A Date, Neither Of You Had Decided Or Agreed You Two Would Be Exclusive, A Date Is A Date, Not A Relationship.
I Think If You Explained Your Fault As Not Intentional, You Just Forgot Due To Changes In The Office, Not Seeing Him In The Office Anymore And Apologize For Fucking This Other Guy, And Be Sincere When You Say This To Him, If You Mean What You Say, And Say It With Feeling, You May Have Chance To Repair It.
Tell Him You See You Two Being Serious, The Right Words Mean Everything.
You can't be serious.
I don't think you really did anything wrong not like you were committed to him
You little beta faggot !!! How can you say that? That's the worst disrespect I can think of. She's lucky he didn't kick her ass ! Which she richly deserves !
Damn no fuckin shame. It probably wasn't the first time you fucked someone on the first date.
You cheat on him and you want him to forgive you, what is wrong with you?
Just don't fuck anymore anyone how walks within a five mile radius of you :) :)
He'll consider you totally un-dateworthy now; kinda like that other guy, because he now thinks of you as him cum dumpster
You don't apologize, you'll only make it worse if you spoke or even make eye contact with him.
You didn't do him wrongly, but you did ruin your chance in getting with him.
yea ur worthless he deserves better dont even try
There's not much hope for that...
So you just fucked a guy you 'don't know that well' while you are dating someone else? There is a name for people who do that.
So you were horny; why didn't you fuck the guy you were dating?
Now you've really hurt him. Good job. Not only is he not important enough to remember a date with him, he got to see you whore it out with someone you don't know. Wow.