My date texted me thanking me after we had sex. What should I feel?

[Anonymous]

thank you i had a good time, he said. What the hell is that? As if I was a prostitute.

How would this message make you feel?

[Walt832]

😂 it depends is funny though.

Because I've used it, in a good way. Few females offended. Those who didn't they were so friendly 😂. We are talking, when I was in college. Everyone made their lifes separate ways. Once a while we visit individually we hang out but no more intimate. Is mainly now about life or work.

Those who got offeded 😂 oh well. They saw the life different angle. Which by now is in the past but they probably learn to accept how it comes and enjoy.

Just enjoy either way. You are young to be thinking wanting solid relationships. Just go to college and get a career mean time have fun. Is one of the best years, not about sex. Is about getting to know people in college going out. That age gap you are exposed to those hormones.

[razelove]

y'all hooked up, and he's not ghosting you. What's the negative here? You're being overly sensitive.

How can a guy make any right move if saying "I had a good time" is you thinking he's calling you a hooker?

[Slay256]

Yeah she’s a bit much

[Paris13]

I believe He is "Thanking You" for just Being with You and Yes, The Sex was probably Good But it Could Mean More like in Your Great Company. Feel him Out. xxoo

[OldWomanBySoul]

If he left you some money then that would mean he thinks of you as a prostitute lol.

I think he genuinely wants to let you know he had a good time and probably wouldn't mind repeating it. Don't overthink and if you wanna reply then I think you'd lift some weight off his shoulders as well, id get pretty worried if I send a text like that but won't get reply lmao

[OlderAndWiser]

He may not have chosen his words carefully, or considered how they would be received by you, but it is unlikely that he thinks of you as a prostitute.

[StormChaser838]

Why do you take it in such a twisted way, he means he enjoyed your full company, out of which your pussy was only one small part. And he may have also liked that too. So you should think that he likes you in general, not only your sex.

[On_cloud_wine]

Lol.. you’re welcome. It was a pleasure doing biznez w you”

[Walt832]

The pleasure is mine. Please feel free to stop by again. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Good old days.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Guessing you are not happy with his simple "thank you" cus you were looking for a more enthusiastic message from after your date (?)

[petitedollbabee]

I don’t understand how you can take that in a negative way. He’s just thanking you for having a good time with him. I’d personally take it as a compliment and feel good about it.

[Pinay_ako]

Say you’re welcome and thanks for the lay too. I was hoping for a round 2 🤣

[NudeBella]

i would feel like I made him happy.

[rachel776]

they don't know what to say sometimes just go with it

[Gent207-2]

Lol

That's not offensive

[Apple1996]

Over text is a little odd but I'd think it's cute if a guy thanked me for sex

[RangerBlue22]

Would you rather he ghosted you instead? Sounds like he meant well and that was a compliment. What is he supposed to say? Smdh.

[Poppymarie]

I think he was just trying to be nice and maybe initiate another date or more sex in the future. I wouldn’t be offended.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Overthinking it is the surest way to make sure I never want to have sex with you. Take the compliment as what it is. Who thanks prostitutes in text messages afterwards?

[SphynxUK]

It’s actually good of him. It’s a boost for your ego. He was thinking about it, and decided to let you know how he felt about it.


If I didn’t hear anything after I’d done the same I’d think he was not very nice.


Either way, say you’re welcome, or ask if he wants to do it again.…?

[TheThingALing]

Because he's likely inexperienced and doesn't know any better

[MementoMori777]

Well ain't that just awkward

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Who said it was about the sex anyway?

[Molly1997]

I wouldn’t be offended