My date texted me thanking me after we had sex. What should I feel?

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thank you i had a good time, he said. What the hell is that? As if I was a prostitute. How would this message make you feel?

Walt832 · Accepted Answer

😂 it depends is funny though.

Because I've used it, in a good way. Few females offended. Those who didn't they were so friendly 😂. We are talking, when I was in college. Everyone made their lifes separate ways. Once a while we visit individually we hang out but no more intimate. Is mainly now about life or work.

Those who got offeded 😂 oh well. They saw the life different angle. Which by now is in the past but they probably learn to accept how it comes and enjoy.

Just enjoy either way. You are young to be thinking wanting solid relationships. Just go to college and get a career mean time have fun. Is one of the best years, not about sex. Is about getting to know people in college going out. That age gap you are exposed to those hormones.

razelove · Accepted Answer

y'all hooked up, and he's not ghosting you. What's the negative here? You're being overly sensitive.

How can a guy make any right move if saying "I had a good time" is you thinking he's calling you a hooker?

My date texted me thanking me after we had sex. What should I feel?

Paris13 · Answer

I believe He is "Thanking You" for just Being with You and Yes, The Sex was probably Good But it Could Mean More like in Your Great Company. Feel him Out. xxoo

petitedollbabee · Answer

I don’t understand how you can take that in a negative way. He’s just thanking you for having a good time with him. I’d personally take it as a compliment and feel good about it.

OldWomanBySoul · Answer

If he left you some money then that would mean he thinks of you as a prostitute lol.

I think he genuinely wants to let you know he had a good time and probably wouldn't mind repeating it. Don't overthink and if you wanna reply then I think you'd lift some weight off his shoulders as well, id get pretty worried if I send a text like that but won't get reply lmao

OlderAndWiser · Answer

He may not have chosen his words carefully, or considered how they would be received by you, but it is unlikely that he thinks of you as a prostitute.

StormChaser838 · Answer

Why do you take it in such a twisted way, he means he enjoyed your full company, out of which your pussy was only one small part. And he may have also liked that too. So you should think that he likes you in general, not only your sex.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Lol.. you’re welcome. It was a pleasure doing biznez w you”

GoodEnoughThen · Answer

Guessing you are not happy with his simple "thank you" cus you were looking for a more enthusiastic message from after your date (?)

Pinay_ako · Answer

Say you’re welcome and thanks for the lay too. I was hoping for a round 2 🤣

rachel776 · Answer

they don't know what to say sometimes just go with it

Apple1996 · Answer

Over text is a little odd but I'd think it's cute if a guy thanked me for sex

RangerBlue22 · Answer

Would you rather he ghosted you instead? Sounds like he meant well and that was a compliment. What is he supposed to say? Smdh.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Lol That's not offensive

Poppymarie · Answer

I think he was just trying to be nice and maybe initiate another date or more sex in the future. I wouldn’t be offended.

NudeBella · Answer

i would feel like I made him happy.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Overthinking it is the surest way to make sure I never want to have sex with you. Take the compliment as what it is. Who thanks prostitutes in text messages afterwards?

TheThingALing · Answer

Because he's likely inexperienced and doesn't know any better

SphynxUK · Answer

It’s actually good of him. It’s a boost for your ego. He was thinking about it, and decided to let you know how he felt about it.

If I didn’t hear anything after I’d done the same I’d think he was not very nice.

Either way, say you’re welcome, or ask if he wants to do it again.…?

strateguy632 · Answer

wait what? u think guys thank prostitute? you shoulf interpret that u caused domeone joy like giving a fancy holiday gift to someone appreciative. reference penny in big bang series. o. m. g. i just now got the double meaning in the title as i copied it. sweet!!!

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Who said it was about the sex anyway?

ManOnFire · Answer

"As if I was a prostitute" lmfao. It really doesn't have to be that way. I fucked a girl once and said something similar to thanks for a good time, and she replied saying she enjoyed me too and that I was "so yummy." Not offensive.

And no offense to you, but I think sometimes females just get too in their feelings about stuff and choose to see something from a guy as weird when it's really not necessary. Don't overthink it and decide you want to be weirded out by something harmless.

My date texted me thanking me after we had sex. What should I feel?

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