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Sexual Health My daughter is 14 and wants to know about oral sex :\ should I tell her? Or have her ask her father. ?
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14 52I think it's a conversation for both parents
Okay thanj u
Tell her. My mother threw a book about sexual development at me without ever talking about anything regarding that. Except for raging at me whenever I talked about these things.
Tell her - that is part of your job as her mother.
It's better to hear from the mother
Wow so smart.. yeah make her father explain that to her..
Maybe.. just maybe... not expose her to such stuff at just 14+?
Tell her everything she wants to know
I think you should tell her if she feels comfortable enough to ask you about it then you should tell her but I think that both of you should be there. Having the input from her father would help even though he may not want to hear it. And I would explain to her what it is and how girls do it and what not because if you lie to her or tell her something different she will go learn it from someone else or also look it up. 13 14 and 15 year olds do this stuff all the time. But be honest with her and don't lie
Not a wise idea for an opposite sex parent to discuss oral sex. It is best that you tell her.
How about you both tell her about it
Aren't you her father?
you tell her, you can open a line of communication and trust, so she will come to you instead of others. give her honest answers, opinions if asked, and don't judge. if you judge, the door will slam shut and will not reopen
Okay
good luck, at all awkward questions be honest and let her know you love her. no judgements
Lol it was a fun convo made me cry. here I though she was so inesent but she ain't m
You can send private message if you need to
I did not understand what you wrote
You can answer her questions and she can learn from you, or she can learn from her peers, who also don't know anything. you can guide her, they will lead her to thier way of thinking
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Tell her or she will find out from others.
Don’t tell her at all, 14 is too young.
Wow as another i would sit here down explain it and the risks or stds even with oral and explain stigma and how girls can be used by men to perform I also would just plain not allow it. I am a mother though and it would be completely unexpected for her to do it at that age
Tell her to concentrate on her studies instead.
Ask her why she is asking about that. I don't remember that being part of sex ed when I was in school. But then again times have changed since then.
Stupid people like you must not have kids
why is she stupid? That could happen to anyone in the modern age where children getting at smartphone at young age. I´ve seen my first porn on a friend´s phone at the age of 15.
Ask her to watch some video.
But I'm old fashioned enough to say, "Not yet."
I don't think a male has any role in talking to his daughter over this.
Let her learn it herself.
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