My daughter said I look desperate for sex is she right?

[Anonymous]

[Lalarousse]

It depends.
If you’ve always been like this , no.
but if you’re doing it out of the blue, yes.

if you’re daughter is saying this , I suppose it’s because you started dressing up like this recently?

It also depends what you’re looking for. Are you just dressing up very sexy because it’s part of your personality , then ok.
But If your goal is to look for a serious relationship, people won’t take you seriously. They only see your body ( so you will attract the wrong guys , the guys who are only looking at the body your showing ) .

[Asker]

ya h i recently started dating again

[Lalarousse]

I mean… it’s fine if your intention are not serious, or if dressing sexy is part of your personality. But if not, don’t dress up to impress a guy or someone else. The way you dress is part of who you are as a person. You can still be sexy while dressing up classy ( for eg : wearing a tight and long bodycon dress ). One thing I can tell you is that I used to dress up too sexy before ( breast showing etc ) and I would always attract the wrong guys or married men lol. Never the good one looking for commitment. Because they are thinking “ oh , this girl is just looking for a good time “ or “ I don’t want my future wife or girlfriend to dress up like this “. Same thing for women. Would you take seriously a guy who’s always shirtless and constantly shows his body? Not really.

[Asker]

if i can be honest I don't want a serious relationship. i just want a lover

[Lalarousse]

Then it’s fine ! You’re not desperate, you’re just making things clear and it’s all good ! Good luck !

[sarahsmile8839]

No. You look hot. If you were desperate, you wouldn't be wearing a bra

[Asker]

okay thanks

[sarahsmile8839]

You are welcoe

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

You got awesome cleavage by the way!!! You look great!! Are they real?

[Asker]

thanks and yes there real.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Omg!!! They’re amazing girl goooo you!! Girls would be thousands and thousands to have a chest like that !’ Good for you!! What size are you?

[sarahsmile8839]

Real is always better than fake ;)

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yea but I’d trade my tiny 32Bs for fake ones that look like her real ones any day

[Asker]

36DD

[sarahsmile8839]

@PizzaPieMamaBear I'm sure yours look good. I've touched some fake ones that feel like potatoes. Not sexy at all.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

They look great!! Lucky mama! I’m a 32B I wish I had those lol

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

No I like my little 32Bs i think I have cute little lemons lol 🍋 🍋 but I’d trade em any day for your giant melons 🍈 🍈

[Jerre]

Wow! That’s more than a handful or mouthful!

[pizzalovershouse]

@PizzaPieMamaBear glad to hear your like bust size many girls dont

[Weapon77]

Hmmm calling you desperate for sex seems harsh, but it might be her way of describing something else that seems to be signalled in the photo. The photo gives the impression of someone who wants a hookup rather than a relationship. Not sure if that's your goal. I know it's hard for middle-aged women trying to date again after gettong out of a long relationship, but maybe your daughter is just picking up on something subtle--perhaps you are trying too hard instead of just being yourself? Just a thought!

[Guffrus]

Not at all.

When a woman looks like that it is coin she wants; all women can get cock whenever they want, they dont get dressed up for cock.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Desperate for attention at the least🤷‍♀️..

[pizzalovershouse]

Hey were on same post I said daughter feels to much cleavage showing

[Guy13]

Yes for sure

[Daniela1982]

When you dress like that you aren't expecting the Good Humor Man.

[tzdc21]

I would say she's right based off this picture. You're showing cleavage. You're showing off your body for attention. That screams desperation when you're showing cleavage or your butt or you're dressed provocatively.

[GreenLanternI0I]

What is your picture has anything to do with your question?

You are desperate for attention.

[ZenJen444]

It's fake because if it was the real person why post anonymously if you're already going to post your pic?

[GreenLanternI0I]

@ZenJen444 Excellent observation! Good Job.

[LazerBean]

💯💯💯

[Asker]

really?

[Sour-rose]

Nah, it's just... ya clothes make you a walking flashlight. Wouldn't say desperate for sex just... damn, ya bright.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

No. More like seeking attraction.

[SnowedIn]

It's entirely possible she's upset that you look hot/sexy. But, no, you don't look desperate.

[anon1903]

If I were her daughter, yes I'd envy her. Because that cleavage is massive! And in a good way.

[Faith18letsgo]

You do look open to sex. But if that’s what you like to wear then just keep doing you!

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Well desperate to fit in… I don’t know how desperate you are for sex… but if your daughter mentioned it then you one hundred percent are…

[Emiliamazing]

My main concern here is, how old is your daughter?

[Asker]

she 12 why?

[Emiliamazing]

That seems a little young to be speaking in that manner, especially to her mother.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

@Emiliamazing that is a very good question and it could explain some things!!

[Asker]

she doesn't like me. she would rather be at her dads house.

[Emiliamazing]

Sorry 😕

[Asker]

yah :/ she alwahs talks back to me when she goes out she doesn't answer my texts / calls

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Honestly that is the behavior of a child who’s parents are split. If you spend some time letting her speak her mind and really listening you might be able to rebuild. Maybe get some counseling together.

[Emiliamazing]

It would certainly be good if you took steps to regain her respect, yyeremight not be much you can do in regards to what the dad says about you.

[Asker]

im trying but she says the only way she ever love me again is if i get back with her dad.

[Emiliamazing]

This is a situation that none of us can really help you with. You must evaluate whyyou left him and if there is anything that can be changed to make you both happy.

[Asker]

no :/ he let his friends rape me while he jerk off

[Emiliamazing]

This sounds like a matter for police, and no reason for you to ever restart the relationship

[Asker]

they arrested all of them but he recently got out.

[anon1903]

Maybe she's just aggravated with the divorce, the fact that she thinks you're replacing her father. It may have nothing to do with you, Asker.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

She’s absolutely right!

[oliver4love]

God bless you with attractive looks.. Honestly I feel it's a Pic of fashion tv model... Man is lucky whom you marry and he enjoy your beauty in real life

[normalice]

No. If you were unattractive, maybe, but you just look "interested."

[Anthonyrov2048]

Your outfit is revealing and maybe should consider how it makes her feel. Assuming she younger. If she an adult then do whatever

[EmmaMary]

SMH.

[Asker]

why?

[EmmaMary]

Both Desperate and Pathetic. smh

[Asker]

sorry :/

[EmmaMary]

There's absolutely no need to apologise to me, perhaps though you should consider doing so to your daughter.

[Asker]

okay imm change

[DevikaButts95]

No you look pretty classy hot in my opinion.

[DenizLikesTennis]

If I saw that, I'd be fine if she wants to BUT in my personal opinion... I'd not be interested into hookups, one night stands or quickies...

[mrmonogamous]

If that’s your picture, you look like you’re desperate. I don’t think the type of guy that’s attracted to that is the same type of guy that you'd like to have a long term relationship with. That’s my opinion.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Little bit