Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Here, I'm referring to people who say monogamy is compulsory for love, and sex is not a form of love. I believe kindness, charity, family, friendship, dating, hookups and sex are all forms of love. Sex is just a later stage of love in some relationships.
I have known people who love each other but don't have sex,
I still know people who have sex and don't love each other,
I know people who have sex with multiple partners and still love the person they can't be with to bits.
It's all a circle of life. We were put on this earth to make it a happy place and love everybody, so if you think love should be limited to just one person loving only one person, and monogamy is a must and then remaining sad and hurt and lonely for the rest of your life when the partner or SO is dead or has dumped or left you then I think you have been brainwashed by Hollywood and other media a lot into believing in monogamy is love.
My first question of 2022 - Do you still believe in monogamy?
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What Girls & Guys Said
22 22Monogamy can be seen as an outdated concept. You can love multiple people too, and every relationship can experience the same escalator as the other.
The truth is, no man worth his salt wants to share his beloved.
If your woman isn't good enough to be true to her then find one that IS.
I'm still a believer.
So you're a daydream believer.
https://youtu.be/wB9YIsKIEbA
Hahahaha @daniela1982 isn't this song from some cartoon? I don't know why I felt like it was.
No, it was just s bunch of monkeys
The song in the video, girl. Lol 😆 I think I'm crazy today... 😭
I know, I was referring to the artists, The Monkees.
Monogamy is far more synonymous with love for women, than it is for men. FAR more.
I know a couple trying being open. The girl happily went and had two hookups, then was extremely upset when the guy lined up a date.
Easy to go on exciting new dates yourself, but imaging your partner with someone else is not.
YES, I DO.
Well you’re just rationalizing then and coming up with your own justifications of what is and what isn’t.
That’s selfish.
Nope I'm not selfish and I'm rationalizing logical thinking, I think monogamy was a good thing for the last few centuries, nowadays it's too old fashioned and boring and probably the cause of 75% of all problems couples have at home. I'm just voicing my thoughts in public, if you're monogamous and you managed to find a partner/SO and you're happy then it's great. Just don't be hypocritical and biased.
Dating hookups and sex are all forms of love. Where does it say that?
Not, I’m not monogamous. I’ve never been. I was a white for a long time. I haven’t dated in years until recently. “Don’t be hypocritical of biased.” Right back at you with your 75% tweet. You do know that “Rationalization is the second strongest human drive, right?” There is a reason why I said it. To say that being old fashioned is probably the cause of 75% of all problems couples have at home? Wow! From being a dirtbag myself I’ll tell you that is not it. Maybe 5% of one one of them acting out because the other is boring. For the most part, those core values are what keeps couples together. Not looking at ass and boobs on social media all day. Money is a big factor too. Especially today. Women are the worst about money. Do you step back ever and reread what you write? I’m not trying to be a dick. I’m being serious.
Naah, too busy to read twice, so many posts, so little time to crunch everything in, you're probably right, let's agree to disagree, have a gr8 day.
Everything else is pointless to me
Myself, yes I’m monogamous. But you can have love without it.
Yup. But we are also in the LIfestyle which is mainly about sex and friendship.
A relationship is monogamous otherwise its just an arrangement to stay together and fuck other people
I don't view hookups or FWBs as polyamory or monogamy since you're not an actual couple. If I'm calling a girl my girlfriend it's going to be a monagamous relationship. Not only is she not sleeping with other people but she's not showing her body on OF either
Some pervert love
I cannot be with other woman till iam committed to my wife or married with her.
I believe that you can have sex without getting emotions involved. Don't get me wrong, sex with the person you love is amazing, but it's a different kind of sex. I honestly believe that human beings weren't created to be monogamous. You can pour all kinds of feelings and emotions into sex with the one you love, and fuck a stranger with no feelings or strings attached.
Yes i do of course forever
Depends on the person. I'm person not into it but to each his own
Women are actually drastically more likely to orgasm with a long term monogamist partner then short term guys and/or hook ups
Jealousy and insecurity are just too strong with most people. It's not that they believe in monogamy so much as they believe they'll lose their partner.
This is definitely true
i believe monogamy is mostly only love. Sex isn't that important to me
lmao i messed up w the sentence
i believe only monogamy is love and Sex isn't important and doesbt have anything to do with real love
sorry if i offended anyone
No you didn't, thanks for the response
Np :)