My girlfriend has sucked off a lot of guys, even while we were dating. Is that ok?
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We met on tinder and my first mistake was that her bio had this stupid joke saying "guys say I have great DSL, but why do they care about my internet?". I thought it was just a stupid joke. We went on a lot of dates and only once we were officially a thing we actually had sex. I also knew she went on some dates with other guys in that period we were just dating but she said she didn't have sex.
I admit, I'm a little insecure and wanted to know her number of sex partners, which is 10. I was really ok with it. At a certain point this guy on Facebook tags her with a wink in this meme:She just answered with "haha :p". I waited for a long time but eventually asked what it was all about. Apparently she went on just one date with that guy and gave him a blowjob. I asked her wtf? And she didn't get why that was bad. Then she admitted that she has done that with over 40 guys and she couldn't exactly remember! And 3 in that month we were dating! She said "I din't have sex with them, it's just fooling around. I don't tell you who I kissed either." To her kissing and blowjobs are not sex but just "fooling around" and she only did that to those guys cause she didn't see herself having anything serious with them. Then her bio on tinder was suddenly less funny and I felt like an idiot. I forgave her but honestly, it does still sting. Am I overreacting or is this pretty bad?
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we weren't exclusive so it simply isn't cheating. But the situation just kinda annoys me. Maybe it's childish but I just keep thinking about 40 random guys blasting a load in her mouth. I have been chatting with her, knowing she was on a date with another guy. Now I know that somewhere that night, she didn't answer at a certain moment cause she was busy sucking a random asshole off.
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And also, I don't use her for sex. I really do love her and the fact that we don't have much sex makes it hurt more
Yes she is experienced in sex make you more happier
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TonythecreatorXper 6
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Yeah fuck that bitch
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sydneyboyXper 6
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Hahahahaha man did you think an easy girl was going to be faithful and change once she's with you😂
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Anonymous
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So she sucked off other guys, but not you? And she says its because she wants something serious with you?
You're a damn fool. Sorry if that hurts, but you need to understand it.
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Anonymous
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has she sucked your dick yet? and does she actually have nice DSLs?
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Asker
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No actually not really. She did it a little one time just as foreplay but never till completion.
Opinion Owner
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do you want one from her?
Anonymous
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If I were you I'd even suck those dicks with her, in relationships it's all about sharing.
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Anonymous
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Well, I can see where you got upset. I think it's understandable to be a little upset. But, in the end it all worked out, so good deal.
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Anonymous
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Just put it in the past and behind you since you have her now, and put her DSL to work on you now 😊
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Anonymous
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For me it seems like you guys are not compatible. If she should not have done this, then the immediete action would be to break up.
Lets say "she is free to do what she wants with her body". Now, it would seem like you are overreacting and you should grow up. Lets assume that you did grow up and forgot everything, who is to say that you won't have similar disagreements in future? Like, if you get serious and have a daughter, would she be okay with her underage daughter giving some dude a bj, "because bj is not sex"? I dont think that she would, but i am using this as an example so that you get the picture.
And from other thought "people change, she might have changed", it does not look like she did if she is responding to her "past" the way you described.
So in all, i feel that you guys are incompatible with this aspect.
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Anonymous
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"Dating" is a period I like to use for building trust as well as getting to know each other. So due to the fact that see sucked cocks while we were dating, I'd have a really hard time trusting her.
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Anonymous
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Nothing wrong with the girl who likes to suck dick
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Anonymous
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You're not over-reacting. If you're looking for anything serious or long term with this girl after that, you're a pussy. She already know it, that's why she openly flirts with these other guys who post things like this, knowing that you don't have the balls to do anything about it but have a bit of a whinge.
I'm being harsh but this is how those other guys are looking at you too. She's gonna make a fool of you.
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Yeah fuck that bitch
Hahahahaha man did you think an easy girl was going to be faithful and change once she's with you😂
So she sucked off other guys, but not you? And she says its because she wants something serious with you?
You're a damn fool. Sorry if that hurts, but you need to understand it.
has she sucked your dick yet? and does she actually have nice DSLs?
No actually not really. She did it a little one time just as foreplay but never till completion.
do you want one from her?
If I were you I'd even suck those dicks with her, in relationships it's all about sharing.
Well, I can see where you got upset. I think it's understandable to be a little upset. But, in the end it all worked out, so good deal.
Just put it in the past and behind you since you have her now, and put her DSL to work on you now 😊
For me it seems like you guys are not compatible. If she should not have done this, then the immediete action would be to break up.
Lets say "she is free to do what she wants with her body". Now, it would seem like you are overreacting and you should grow up. Lets assume that you did grow up and forgot everything, who is to say that you won't have similar disagreements in future? Like, if you get serious and have a daughter, would she be okay with her underage daughter giving some dude a bj, "because bj is not sex"? I dont think that she would, but i am using this as an example so that you get the picture.
And from other thought "people change, she might have changed", it does not look like she did if she is responding to her "past" the way you described.
So in all, i feel that you guys are incompatible with this aspect.
"Dating" is a period I like to use for building trust as well as getting to know each other. So due to the fact that see sucked cocks while we were dating, I'd have a really hard time trusting her.
Nothing wrong with the girl who likes to suck dick
You're not over-reacting. If you're looking for anything serious or long term with this girl after that, you're a pussy. She already know it, that's why she openly flirts with these other guys who post things like this, knowing that you don't have the balls to do anything about it but have a bit of a whinge.
I'm being harsh but this is how those other guys are looking at you too. She's gonna make a fool of you.
You are pathetic