My girlfriend told me she was 'Raped' and I stupidly asked if she enjoyed it... She cried what should I do?

My reaction was because I thought she was exaggerating.

Firstly, My girlfriend is the attention seeking blonde type. And we were talking. She explained what sounded like rape when she was a little younger. She said 2 guys forced her to give oral and they penetrated her with available objects. At first I asked questions then randomly I said "I wish I could watch". She gave me the deadliest glare I've ever seen. Then I said stupidly on top of that "Dont tell me u didn't enjoy it babe". She went crazy and tried attacking me saying she was in pain and that she was building courage to tell me. She started crying saying she thought at least I would sound concerned. In all honesty im the type to show little care it's my personality and I make situations awkward.

Today she texted me saying she hates me and I said Ok. Im not good at dealing with hormonal emotional chicks. She seems to make me feel guilty for who I am. When im angry and silent she notices easily and is the type to hold me but for some reason her hurting doesn't get me sad. When she told me she was 'raped' a part of me enjoyed that she was so upset and hurt. I dont know why and we've been together 3 months. I've been told Im heartless by many people so what should I do even if it means I look more concerned then I actually do?

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  • Hm it seems you have either a low amount of empathy or non at all. You could be a sociopath but I'm not sure if a sociopath would write a post about this directly. Maybe your a Narcissist. People who post things like these want some sort of attention after all. But hey behind that screen maybe you don't have a mental illness and just a troll or your just a random person with less empathy than most people

  • You're either a troll or a psychopath and in either case should not be permitted within 100 yards of any other living thing.

  • I hope she dumps you

  • Wow, she's sounds like she's better off with out you...