My girlfriend told me that overall I'm not the best partner she ever had and I can't seem to deal with it and can't even make love anymore. What should I do?

So.. my bad.. I actually made my girlfriend confess that overall I'm her second best partner in her entire life (she's 28).
I thought that it wouldn't affect me but it does... badly.
I can't even make love to her anymore. It feels so dirty, so bad. I feel like I'm hating myself whenever I'm thinking about making love to her.
Is there any way to fix this? or maybe I should consider breaking up soon?
I love her with all my heart and soul but I can't take it.. I simply can't. It's too hard for me to bear this. I feel weak, the sex would be chaotic. I would feel ashamed of actually having sex with her...
What should I do?
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  • Women and their shit tests. How I love it that being single means not having to deal with female bullshit. She shit tested you and you failed to pass. She is laughing her ass off with your misery right now. What you should do? Grow a pair stop listening to women and their childish shaming language.

    • No, he kept bugging her for an answer - which she had no desire to give - until she finally relented. This is completely on him for insisting on an answer when he couldn't handle the truth.

    • bullshit. this is what she does to him all the time. I've been through the same shit and so have you. Women always try to think of ways to make a man angry, sad or miserable and enjoy it when they succeed.

  • You should not compare, but i see you really like this girl, otherwise you would have not think of that, take time to talk about what is working in your relationship, what is thr best that tied you together, the sex will come along with your complicity and connection, if not, it doesn't work i guess

  • Ask her to bleach her asshole

  • Ouch.

  • its called "she's ruined" find a fresher less fkd up woman

  • Ouch!

  • It's your fault.

  • You know the answer, get fucking rid of her!! She does not respect you and she never will. Find a real woman.

  • If you aren't the girls best she will leave or cheat eventually one day OR she gets low enough self esteem she just gives up on life and admits you are the best she will ever have again. Either way she will think of him sometimes when you're having sex. None of that sounds like a good option.

  • Fucked up situation. Don't ask don't tell dude!

  • 2nd place is the first loser. Id break up. Although probably night before i did, id take a bunch of viagra and destroy that pussy. Then leave.

    • Lmfaooo

  • Break up with her. Clearly, you two are not compatible partners. Go meet someone who's more compatible with you

  • Definitely have a talk with her to find out what you can do to make it better. If not then you might as well break up with her because she will even look for someone else.

  • Your girlfriend is a bitch. If you can’t get over it dump her and find someone better.

  • At the first place, u shouldn't have asked her such a question. If u love her, try not to bother about it.

  • Well some time that's the way it works out, everyone has different experiences in their lives and what's for one isn't for the other and thats amoug millions of people then you see
    How a miriad of experiences could skew the issue.

  • Honestly? What a bitch! Send her to chingar a su puta madre!

  • Say fuck it and pack it bags man she fucking somthing else

  • Leave her, if she thinks she can do better let her try

  • If you can’t handle the truth why ask?

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