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Sexual Health My girlfriend used to love anal so much before she with me, but now she hate it for some reason. Why?
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I found out she used to love anal so damn much when she with her ex boyfriend to the point that she the one who teach him about anal sex. Basically she craving for anal sex cause she used to say to her ex boyfriend that anal sex is more intense and tighter. But now when she with me, she don't like anal for some reason. I'm okay with normal vagina sex but what actually make her change her mind about anal sex that she used to crave like crazy? I have try asking her about anal sex with me but she said she don't like anal and it's painful. Is she lying to me? I have even ask her about her past that she used to like anal but what she said to me that those was just a lie and she just acting like a slut cause she feels she was worthless. Can someone explain to me what's is going on? I already try to have anal sex with her and she just said it's painful. The anal sex didn't work out and I just did 3 penetration to her anal. She was hurting and I can't stand her hurting because I really love her so much and I can't barely see her holding the pain for me. She was crying a little bit after that and I apologise to her for doing that. But seriously, can someone explain to me why she used to like anal and now she don't? Thanks in advance.
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 17You have to "warm" up the area first. A lot. Fingers, tongue, slow, for a while! With it very lubricated. She needs to be fully relaxed. It's a trust thing in order to relax that much. It takes time, patience and lots of attention with lube on the area to make it not painful. Maybe you're not taking enough time to get her ready?
I used to love anal, but now it hurts. I want it to feel like it used to. My husband isn't larger than some of these other guys I used to hook up with. In fact he's quite normal (below average) sized. I don't understand it. I want to do it with him. It just doesn't feel good. Best guess why? My ass isn't healthy. Do a cleanse with her to upgrade her colon health.
Do you want to have a banana go up your ass for her pleasure?
Enough said.
she did it for her ex because she liked sex with him more than she likes it now...
I think She’s lying. She probably thinks girls who give anal are sexy and more wanted and kinky, and wanted to feel that way. I love anal, and I will say once you start taking a dick in your ass you don’t go back to normal sex again.
It is painful first and probably tried it with her ex and it hurt too much and felt worthless because she couldn’t cope. She’s a good girl
Maybe your to rough once I tried anal With my wife and I hurt her and u can see the pain so we stopped for a long time and the next time I had to be very very gentle Like very a lot of lube you need to relax her so she won't tense up
Because she respects her ex more than she respects you.
She's saving Er sweet ass for Er ex son