My hubby wants to make me cum twice before he even puts his dick in me. It drives me crazy! Is this normal?

Question

Sometimes I can't wait that long and I just need him inside me. You know?

Love2Jackit · Accepted Answer

I say no it's not normal. Reason being he's wanting 2 control the situation. Meaning by him wanting u 2 get off 2 times before he does any thing with u. That's him being a self centered asshole. Reason being he wants u 2 beg him 2 have sex with him. I would tell him next time u want 2 see him get off 2 times before u have sex. U need 2 stress 2 him that he has 2 do it first. Along with letting u watch. Then tell him u have decided. That u don't want sex 2 night. U are tired and ready 2 go 2 bed. Now see what his reaction will be. True proof if he is a self centered asshole. He will refuse 2 do what u ask him 2 do. Reason I am so persistent on seeing what his reaction will be. Cause if he is already starting 2 be this controlling. It's only going 2 worse. Remember love and sex are like a 2 way street. U both got 2 work 2 gether 2 be happy. It's not suppose 2 be one person doing all the taking or controlling the situation. By him doing what he does now. Just imagine what he will in the future.

Gedaria · Accepted Answer

I can see why , he wants to make sure you have had st least one orgasm. But talk to him or a signal you want his cock...

Sandy787 · Accepted Answer

It's not normal, he should get in before you have to cum twice.

KitKnickKat · Accepted Answer

Duh, yes of course it’s normal lol what a stupid question

All4ur_pleazure · Answer

That all depends on how you feel about it. Does it bother you does it turn you on even more? I remember being with a woman one night and before I even slid myself into her I made her cum with my fingers then I went down on get and worked two more orgasms out of her with my tongue. Yeah she wanted me inside her really bad after that. But there were other times when we were together that she just let me get her close to cumming then she wanted me inside her. It wasn’t about me wanting to hear her begging for my cock it was that I knew what my partner liked and didn’t have a problem giving it to her.
What’s normal for you and him might not be normal for others.

standingUP · Answer

How selfish of him... First world problems #445

ohshee · Answer

We all have our kinks I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I like to do the same thing. But with my cock in her I want her to come 2 times before me

John1972 · Answer

I for one do not believe it's normal. I have always believed in being a courteous lover. If you get in there and enjoy yourself but leave her thinking what the hell... well it won't be long before your looking for another. I feel like he is worried that getting into the game to early he cum long before you do. Have you simply said "Put your cock in me NOW!" You will find taking control and demanding what you want is a huge turn on. And if you have tried then out of the bed room explain what is going on and what you like. Just keep reinforcing his ego while you are talking to him then he will start to understand. Married for 21 years because I listened

Avicenna · Answer

That is crazy

Dargil · Answer

No, it's not normal.

Nik1hil · Answer

Just keep coming dear...

reptocarl2 · Answer

Then take charge and roll him on his back and put his dick in you and ride

DogEatsCat1973 · Answer

I like to do that by licking on her because I love to taste her fluid and it winds me up for when I do put it in.

BloJo · Answer

Twice is just the beginning. I often eat her to four or five orgasms before I penetrate her.

COMMODOREII · Answer

He's mean. Lol yeah I've dont that before. I've also will put my dick in for a bit but then pull it away till she cums again without me inside. 😈

Joe__Exotic · Answer

He’s dicked you down good.

jrg12836 · Answer

Does he last long once he's in? Cause he may think he's not lasting long enough for you

REDHOTLINE · Answer

Yes its normal

Crimsonstorm · Answer

it is a good healthy rule i use it too

steveranger · Answer

Yeah it normal. I want girl to cum more often. I make sure that on giving oral to her she cums. And latery dick should make her cuum. More than twice till I cum.