I can really relate to this question. I had a partner who didn’t like foreplay at all, so it never happened. We tried to work on it, but it would go back to the same routine ‘get on, get off, get out’. The only good thing about it, was that it didn’t take up much of my time. Less than 10 minutes, 3-5 times weekly. But you will probably find that this will lessen as time goes on, as you won’t be bothered. I found that bad sex was an indication of a lack of chemistry. You need more then to be just ‘best friends’ with your partner. You need a fire, passion, a intimate connection to make it work, and a partner who is willing to put in effort in the bedroom.
0 1 0 0You Should have Done, hun, Thought Twice before you married Him for I am Sure you had Sex with Him Before this Marital Bedroom Door.
Work together as Two birds of a Feather or Split up and Shut up.
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Are you saying he won't try anything new or different knowing if he keeps on leaving you unsatisfied there's a good chance you guys won't have a future together?0 0 0 0Are you a guy or girl?
Im a girl
You should communicate your sexual interests with him.
Maybe do it while you are doing foreplay to break the ice.0 0 0 0Thats another thing. There is no foreplay. He doesn't know how to turn me on and when I tell him he refuses. He thinks sex means " Ok, my dick is throbbing I am just going to shove it in her and get my rocks off and go play the XBox
You need to really have a talk. This is not healthy.
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Counselling. Take it the farthest you can. You can get it yourself fire how to approach him. You can get sex counselling for how to improve from your end, you can figure out how to work with it being "Too hard. " have you been training your pc muscles to squeeze him? That should help you. You could do sex therapy with a woman and try to sell him on that (He might think it's hot). Whatever you do, be clear that it's a big deal for you if it is. Make it a conscious decision for him about whether to meet your needs. If he loves you he should budge at least a bit
0 0 0 0First you talk to him but try doing it the way suggested in this My Take.
How to Talk to Your SO About Sex ↗
If after three or so tries, you're still unhappy, see a good couple's therapist who's kink friendly. There are lists on the internet of kink friendly therapists on the internet.0 0 0 0
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3 2Sounds like a personal prob that you should'handle' with him... Try communication, I know it's a crazy idea
0 1 0 0So is this a gay marriage, or are you confused what sex/gender you are?
0 0 2 0I am a female. I put the wrong gender
Surprise Surprise. smh
Lol why do you say that?
Is it possible he thought he's marrying a gal instead of a guy?
And now he feel cheated?0 1 1 0Nope. I am a girl I just put my gender as a guy I honestly dont remember why. I made this account months ago. Probably just in case lol
So, my next question is, how many times do you have sex with him before marriage?
We we together for a year and a half before marriage so we've had lots of sex but I thought I would be ok with him being bad in bed because I figured I could teach him or he would catch on somehow. Boy, was I wrong! I suppose this is my fault and now I am stuck. Every time I tried to leave or got onto my feet he impregnated me. We have 3 small children and I am hoping we can become more charismatic with one another
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0 0 0 0Damn bro.. I'd just want you to leave that way and be a normal guy who's running after pussies but not dicks.
0 0 0 0Im actually a woman. I put the wrong gender on here on purpose. I guess to conceal my identity or something I don't know
Ah got it haha, well sorry but your husband sounds really stupid.. and u are right to be worried. You should tell ur husband about what u feel and what u want.
I tried the other day and he got really embarrassed and upset with me. During sex I tried to put his hand on my neck and he seemed to get freaked out and threw off.
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