My husband want to see me fucking other guys I should feel bad about it but actually it’s turning me on and making me very wet whenever he talk?

We’re married couple and we have good sex life but he’s more adventurous and always talk about me having sex with strangers and go dirty with them and I get very turned on and wet I get very exited instead of feeling bad. I don’t know what’s wrong with me? Is that wrong?
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  • I hope you are serious, if so, here is what I have experienced and know of. I think it is a common fantasy, and hot, if you and husband can handle the feelings that may come from it. I have had a threesome with a man and wife, where the man watched me eat his wife's pussy. A great turn on for me and him, but anxiety kept my penis soft, so no fucking for him to watch.

    A married lady friend, said her husband suspected that I was fucking her, and at that point, I had not fucked her. I showed her a photo of my erect penis, with me in bed (taken by another lady friend of mine) and she immediately liked my girth (thickness) and I suspected her husband's penis was longer, but thin. She and I later fucked three times in my apartment, while her husband was in National Guard camp in June. I wanted to TELL HER that I thought her husband would want to watch us fuck, but never did aske her. His accusing her aroused my suspicion that this was true. This same lady friend, fixed me up with her married girlfriend, who was supposedly interested in my thick penis. We met, after work, and she drove me to her apartment. When I got there, I saw into the bedroom, and a pair of levis (I thought to be her husbands) was on the bed. I don't know for certain, and do not until this day, if those jeans were her husbands and he was in the bedroom, waiting to watch me fuck his wife. She did not say, and I can only guess that was the situation. I suspected he would watch and jack off.

    A lady friend of mine here in california, got an erect penis photo in her email from some source and showed it to me. I suggeste she meet with him and possibly jack him off or suck him or fuck him.
    She met him and jacked him off and thought of 'kissing the head' of his penis but thought better of it
    A girl friend of mine suggested to me that she had fantasized (during her masturbation) that I sucked off my best friend. That was a hot button for us both, as she got so wet thinking about it.

    All that said: Nothing unusual about you or your husband and nothing wrong with you, many men and
    women have those thoughts and fantasies. Think it over and talk about it before you fuck another man with your husband watching. I have done it and it is VERY HOT. Prepare mentally and psychologically

    Bruce

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  • I am from India and people are so dumb here they assume porn and news from news channel the reality they cannot understand the difference between fantasy and propaganda,
    I will tell you example
    generally in porn there are white females so they have the same misconception that white women are characterless and slut and they do all such sorts of things because porn has maximum of those and same goes with indian men because they have only porn as a source of info about white people , all of them lack critical thinking , logic to understand between virtual world and real world here.
    They don't have slightest idea that people are religous in US and Europe too who save themselves for marriage or wait for the right person and porn people are not the real people it is just a movie/film.
    There are few people like this women or guy behind a women name (don't know) trying to copy western stuff to show that how open minded or forward they are , I still don't understand how can someone share their loved ones with others.

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  • Not wrong to get turned on by the FANTASY of this.
    The acting out of it is another thing entirely.
    You're going to bring strange men into your home to have sex with you while your husband watches?
    Exactly what's going on between you two? Are you bored with each other? Need some spice in your life?
    Realize, we've had a very difficult year because of Covid. And this is ANOTHER issue.
    You're not going to invite strangers into your home who could be infected with Covid and who could infect you.
    This is all kinds of dangerous! Just as inviting strange men into your life is dangerous.
    Why don't you two talk this out with a sex therapist first to find out what's really going on in your interpersonal lives.
    Don't act on this until you have a professional opinion and you've spoken with this therapist at least six sessions.
    Be SAFE before you'll be sorry.

  • Women should stop feeling guilty for their sexual turn ons, desires. Although you may feel guilty that he may think you've wanted it all along, but actually that's what he's hoping for. Even if you didn't but do now. Let out your inner slut and have erotic fun.

    • Thanks for lovely opinions it’s giving me confidence and yeah I should enjoy my self because if I wasn’t like it I wouldn’t get wet of thought about it.

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  • Nothing is wrong with you. Everyone has things that turn them on. If it excited you and he's down why not have an honest discussion about it?

    Maybe it's just something to remain a fantasy that's never acted on or maybe it's something you want to explore safely. So long as you are both open, honest, trust each other and are both accepting of it then there shouldn't be anything wrong there.

    Main thing is, there is nothing wrong with you or your husband if that's something you want to do.

    • Thanks but I’m more worried about what will our reaction will be after the act.

    • That's why being completely open and honest is important. Take the time to talk it out and make sure it's something you 100% want, any doubts about it hold off. Its not something to take lightly. Jealousy, regret, or future resentment could ruin a relationship if you're not absolutely sure. But spouses should be able to talk things through without judgement or fear. That communication is key in everything.

  • Why do all new pinks on G@G seem to ask this question? If you want to fuck other guys then break up, male or female. How hard is that?

    • @anjali100 This is the 2nd question on this. I'm thinking you are just trolling like most Xper 1 pink people. Are you actually in India and are you actually a girl or just some horny Indian guy? When you have to post 2 separate questions on this it makes me wonder.

    • First of all I don’t need to fake it and secondly it’s your choice to believe it or not like we all have our own account to ask whatever we want and how many questions we want.

    • You ooze fake, just like the other guys posing as girls.

  • Go for it and let him watch you'll probably like it 😃

    • I am sure we both will like it

    • Then do it

  • Hi I have been there, but I am an exhibitionist anyway so it was amazing for me, the only questions really is this
    1/ how do you think your husband would really react
    2/ would you be happy and want it to happen
    I have never had any regrets and neither has my husband but he is a voyeur

    • I spoke to him and he’s fine and promised nothing will change after the act but my concern is what will be my reaction what if I get attached with strangers

    • can we message privately?

    • Sure

  • Some think it is wrong. What matters is what you think. I would not think any less of you if you did.

  • I think it's one of the biggest and intimate things do you have a married couple to indulge in this , as a couple. If you have both talked about it and you both accept it, you should not feel ashamed in how much it is enjoyable to you. Your husband is willing to allow you to do this , then it falls upon you on how much you want to explore this side of it. just like if you gave him permission to allow him 2 receive oral from another woman as you watched. As long as you both agree of the circumstances, and more importantly, not hide the situation from each other... Your relationship should be considered extremely healthy.

  • Does he actually or is that a mental fantasy of his? If he actually does and you are able to do it on your own terms - choosing the partners then do it and let us know how it went! :)

  • The part about it getting your taco all frothed up, is a little TMI -- other than that, I say go for it.

  • Haha that's pretty gay

  • Morally it is a bit questionable.
    However, if you are interested in it, you might find that you can have a lot of fun and really find out what different guys are like and how much power you have as a woman.
    So it is your morals you are dealing with, and yet your passion and erotic nature is what is getting interested and wet.
    Have fun, but be careful.

  • If it turns you on then it means you both are on same page so don't see any problem.

    • I think so but I was thinking why I’m not feeling bad and actually getting exited and my body start reacting in positive way also I am worried about after the act

    • Everyone has different kinks and fantasies. If this makes you excited then why do you need to ask "why I am not feeling bad". And you won't know what it's going to be after the act. One thing you can do is make really really sure that that's what he wants and talk to him about what happens and will things change after you do it.

    • You right everyone has different kinks and everyone enjoy differently I asked because I was curious that an I really wrong or should I talk to him properly and go for it. And he’s 100% sure about that I know for very sure.

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  • Nothing wrong with getting excited about the thought of that but use caution. Any time you let another guy into the picture and have sex with him, you could be introducing feelings and other critical issues that could damage your marriage. I would only fantasize about it. Too risky.

  • I have dated several guys that liked that and it was a big turn on to me too knowing two guys were looking at me and thinking about and having orgasms watching me have sex with another guy (s). If both of you are ok with it and have discuss how far I will go with the other guy, I think it can be a huge boost to your sexual relationship.

    • Exactly and we did talked about it in details and decided boundaries and true it’s gonna boost up and I’m very exited but don’t know how it’s gonna happen

  • If you are fine with it then go ahead. You aren't cheating here because you have his approval but make sure the guys involved in the session are trustworthy and maintain the confidentiality.

  • I find both of you gross.

  • I mean if he wants to get cucked, no need to feel bad. Arrange something?

  • The fantasy of it might be a turn on but to actually do it , you might be putting your marriage in fire , so that’s something you should really reconsider if you want your marriage to last , your husband might be turned on thinking of it but if it actually happened he might resent you and hold that against you for actually going along with it

  • I don't agree with your husbands views but I'd love to fuck you and lick your pussy.

  • nope just means your open to the idea of trying thing

  • I don't see any reason to be embarrassed. You can't help what turns you on. And lucky you, it sounds like you're both into this idea

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