My man doesn't like me reading novels with sex scenes?

Been dating this man for almost a year now, I'm 24 and he's 26. I've known that he watches porn since before we got together, and even though I don't like it and i don't watch it, I've tried to pretend I don't care and whatever. But anyway, I read a lot, and plenty of the books I like have sex scenes in them. They're not actually like erotica or anything. I don't even read them to get turned on. But my man brought up the other day that it doesn't make him feel comfortable. He says he feels like I connect more with the male love interests than him and that I might be comparing them to him. I said that wasn't fair because he watches porn and I don't make a problem out of that, even if it makes me insecure. He said it's different. Is it fair for him to be complaining about this?

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  • He wanna make the story with u i think

    • No, he's not interested in reading. He's just jealous of the love interests.

    • Never tried sexting with him?

    • I don't like it.

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  • From my personal view, I wouldn’t feel comfortable knowing my girlfriend is looking at other men.

    as for the Novel and reading that is completely fine and I would have joined in to know what she likes and maybe we would try to implant them to our sex life.

  • Did you learn anything?

    • like what?