Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Like every other girl I do have a #metoo story. It happened few years ago when I was a high school junior. I was going to fail important class and only thing that could have saved me was perfect Research paper. So I went to that guy who I thought was a friend od mine and ask him wether he could write it for me. He was a nerd and straight A guy so I knew it would be a good one. He said sure no problem but I want to lose my virginity with you. I can't describe how shocked and disgusted I were. I told him he's a moron. He right away made me another offer - paper for a blowjob. I slapped him and left.
But the next day when I couldn't write anything good I called him and told him I really need his help. He replied that his offer still stands but so does the price. So I went to his place and gave him a blowjob.
Thankfully it didn't take him long to finish. He did that to my mouth which I didn't allowed even my past boyfriend to do. I quickly left and vomited on the street in front of his house.
It's fair to say he delivered and I passed the class thanks to the research paper he wrote for me. I could later go to college I wanted.
But I'm still hurt by the experience. It returns to me very often. Fact that he's a public figure makes it even worse...
So should I reveal my story?
My #metoo story, should I got public?
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2 37It was a transaction. You agreed to the price. In a way it's prostitution. Not really rape or assault. He provided a service you wanted and you provided a service he wanted. I get that you hated it, but speaking as a person who has written a, lot of research papers, they aren't easy. It takes time and effort.
You just did
He didn't do anything wrong. You wanted something from him and he had his price.
You paid it. Plus you cheated to get a good grade. Deal with it.
Lmao... you had a choice to make concerning his price venture. You agreed regardless to the agreement of terms of yhe price... Now you think exploiting him isn't your failure? #STUPIDASSMETOO
no for one you were in high school, and you would come out on the bad end for cheating on a paper and using so you could go to college just let it let it die which it will in time you have nothing to gain for it than misery
This isn't S. A.
You agreed to suck his dick in exchange for his help.
I'm a afraid you consented
Well you got your paper out if it. Understanding please we all screw up in life and can pick and choose
C'mon - A guy forcing a girl to give him a sexual favor by making her feel she has no other choice that is a textbook example of a metoo story!
We don't know her background, she could have come from a underprivilledged community with a poor access to education so college might have been her only option to get a better life and it might have been really a challenge for her to write an excellent paper by herself! It's so easy to judge somebody.
I am not sure about reporting though. You said he is a public figure. Do people want for example their kids to have a teacher who as young forced a friend to give him a blowjob? I don't! We don't know what other sh*t he did to other girls. He clearly express predatorian behavior! So there might been other girls with other metoo stories with this guy!
But when you reveal it, it's gonna turn on you badly, as you have seen here
"The Me Too movement, with variations of related local or international names, is a social movement against sexual abuse and sexual harassment where people publicize allegations of sex crimes." nothing about this is harassment or abuse. She was told paper for blowjob. she chose to give a blowjob for the paper. she whored out and profited.
@SnakeBoop this is an abuse. Her options were blowjob or severe academic consequences. If he offered her paper for a blowjob or money and she'd chosen a blowjob than it would be a form of prostitution because she would have a choice.
She did have a choice she decided to give him head so he would cheat for her that fundamentally it he did not come to her she went to him jot once but twice ad he told her what it would cost
she chose a blowjob for cheating. it was 100% a choice. there was no severe academic consequences that were NOT her own doing. She was NOT under duress, NOR did she have NO other choice. She could have studied herself, like you're meant to. Her whoring out is not abuse. At all. She WILLINGLY chose to do it. IF you cannot see that, then thats on you. But don't be surprised when she can think false rape accusations are now okay because you said otherwise. Ignorance is part of the issue. You're showing yours. :/
She left out the part where she WASN'T forced to do anything. The guy is a jerk, not a rapist.
You left out the part*
You should reveal your story to your college so they can set you up with Lori Loughlin
You should have learned how to write your own paper, is it his fault that you are a prostitute?
i Am ThE ViCTiM bEcAuSe He WoUlD NoT GiVe Me SoMeThInG fOR nOtHiNg
iT iS aLL hIs FaUlT tHaT I aM a WhOrE
Reminds me of the feminist who seduced the nerd and then #metoo'ed him. The guy took his own life. And here is another reason I would avoid feminists (and women like the asker) like the plague.
I think you should try to move on and not reveal the story. You did what he asked and he did what you asked. If you decide to reveal the story do not include his real name. If you feel traumatized/victimized by what happened, you may find it helpful if you talk to your doctor about counseling or therapy.
I think you just did. A deal is a deal I guess. Makes you a whore though. No different than a prostitute which trade sex for money and you traded sex for a paper.
Yes, you should reveal yours and his academic dishonesty.