My new boyfriend has a big penis will it hurt me?

Just want to know if any ones experiences a big penis and would like to share if its going to hurt because I am a little nervous about it
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I am confused why some guys say its going to hurt, have you experienced a big dick is that how you know it will hurt? I want to know from people who have experienced a big penis inside them
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  • It depends on him. If he gets all crazed because he has his cock it you yah it will hurt more than likely you have to teach him stop slow down it's not a hundred hard dash it's making love for me I love going so very slow motion I want to feel how tight her walls are holding me I wand to feel every ting I'm touchingbin there and where she coming from and I don't know how long he is but the first few time he docent need to stuff it all in there you have to remind him if he gets out of control it's going to hurt your not goingbto like it our want to do it and feel him to keep looking deep in to your eyes they will tell him everything what to do what not to do

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  • First, just don't over think it and make sure that you are having fun and feeling pleasure.

    I've had big ones hurt and not hurt... it always depends on how horny/wet I am. Even the same guy can hurts sometime and not other times.

    As long are you relax, enjoy, and make sure you are warmed up... a big penis can really feel wonderful.

    It also depends on how big he is... do you mind sharing that info?

    On of my best guy friends and friends with benefits, have a really really big one... just over 8.5" long (yes I've measured, many times, because every time I see it I can believe how big it really is). Sometime I crave having sex with him, and having him inside me feels really damn good. But, I don't think I could be in a relationship with him... that is just too much penis for sex on a regular basis.

    Hope this helps... and I hope you have fun with that big penis!

  • If he has a 9” erection, yes, it will hurt if he slams into your cervix. You can prevent this with different positions that allow you to control the depth of penetration. If he wants balls-deep doggy, hard and fast, you’re going to feel sharp pains and that’s not a turn on.

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  • If he cares about your well being, he would go at your pace. Of course it would hurt as all hell if he just ram you all the way at the very first pump. Even if he is careful and gentle it would hurt but at least you would be comfortable with him until you get used to his size.

    • reacting to your update: I've had a girlfriend who were so tight, we had to work on her getting used to my size for a couple of minutes. But I'll shut up if you are only interested in girls opinion.

    • Nono just some guys are just saying it will hurt with no experience at all. And then she got use to it? Did it hurt her though? 😮

    • The very first time she never really got used it it. She said it was fine after a few minutes but I saw her struggling for a couple of more minutes then she eased into it a bit more and it was fine, though we ended it with oral since she wasn't comfortable going all the way to the end. It was like this for 2 or 3 times after that, but then she got used it and enjoyed it from the start to the end.

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  • It may at first but with sufficient arousal, practice, and lube you'll be fine. Is it long, wide or both?

  • It isn't going to hurt. Your vagina stretches from like here to the tree in yoru front yard for child bearing and stuff. Have fun and thank God you got a guy with an above average penis.

  • Just use some lube ( yes it really helps) and perhaps get on top... that way you control the depth and speed at least to start out with. How do you know it is big... have you gotten naked or given him a handjob?

  • Do not trust the anaconda! He will only bring you pain!

  • you will be fine dear i thought it would hurt with my man the first time but there is a lot of natural lubricant so its fine but just incase have some lube and let him go down on you too

  • Are you a virgin? If you’re a virgin then it will otherwise it shouldn’t.

  • Well find out how big it is and then go down to the local sex shop and buy a dildo the same size and try it out because fear can actually keep You from living a happy life.

  • OK. I'm petite. 5ft 2 and 108lbs. My husband is 6ft 2 and close to 200 and he is very endowed.
    I find he can't go too deep bc it hurts so we find different positions like probone and spooning work
    Never tried analysis before so can't help you put in that position

  • If you can pass three fingers, triangulated, into your vagina, girth won't be an issue.
    If he is long, you should direct him below your cervix (doggy and reverse cowgirl do this) and you should be OK. Use plenty of lube and don't rely on nature.

  • You are lucky then lol

  • If you don't get enough foreplay, it will hurt. You need to be READY for it before. if your vagina is ready to receive it, it's the best but if it's not, it's the worst!

    FYI - Big Penises are over rated.

  • You just need to be patient until you get adjusted, make sure you get really wet and relax. If you are nervous you won't get super wet and won't loosen up enough.

    Also if he tries to just ram it in there its gonna hurt. but it shouldn't be that way, not at first

  • You will get addicted to it

  • Yes, it will likely hurt a bit, but if he knows what he's doing then you should be fine. And remember, you're capable of having a baby, so that would stretch you out even more than a big dick would. Have some lube on hand too.

  • yes. be prepared.

    • Have you had a big dick inside you?

  • Lwell shilhe will be faithful alllndcone back to you...

  • Maybe, make sure you use lubrication

  • No, I don't think so. Us guys learn to keep it muzzled and on a chokechain leash.

  • it won't "hurt", it shouldn't, especially if you're horny

    However, for the first few seconds or so, it'll feel "uncomfortable" as your vagina adjusts to that size of penis

    The vagina is stretchy. It can fit all sizes of penis, and there's no such thing as tight or loose

    those are terms used to describe sluts and prudes. to get away with calling them, exactly that, sluts and prudes

    so remember that, the next time some guy or woman calls you tight or loose, they're literally calling you names

  • It could hurt you

    • How you know?

    • I just know

    • If you never had a big dixk inside I am confused how you would know

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