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Sexual Health My parents had sex in MY ROOM!!! I'm angry and I feel very disrespected?
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I go to college and come home on the weekends to spend time with my parents. I was just going to drop off my stuff in my room when I hear weird sounds. My door was closed but I knew what was happening... Angry I pounded on the door yelling "WHAT ARE YOU TWO DOING IN MY ROOM!!!" They stopped suddenly and I could hear them quickly putting on their clothes. I walked out into the kitchen and waited for them. My dad came out mad saying "You should really let us know when you're coming home." And I said "You two shouldn't be having sex in my room! I mean really! That's disrespectful!" My mom and dad then told it was their house and they could do what they wanted in it. I shouted "That doesn't make it okay! It's really gross what you did!" They then started giving me an excuse that it was natural and the urge can come quick. Pissed I told them they had their own room to satisfy their urges and that I'm staying over on the weekends anymore. My parents them said that I was being ridiculous but I just left in the middle of their sentence. I may be considered a brat but who does that seriously! YOU HAVE YOUR OWN BED!
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Sentence correction: Pissed I told them they had their own room to satisfy their urges and that I'm *NOT* staying over on the weekends anymore.
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33 58it is their house they can do whatever and when ever they want at any time in their home and that includes sex you have no say and no right to be mad the bed you sleep in is theirs to begin with even though it's yours but if you really think about it they are the one that bought the bed you sleep in so in reality it is their bed get over it and grow the fuck up
Well it's pretty fucked up, but when you think about it you're only here because they had sex.
I'm just mad they did it in my room when I'm staying there for the weekend and they have their room. Just why my room and bed with my personal sheets.
Yeah, like I said, pretty fucked up.
Yeah I can see why you are mad, it is there house, but you are right since it is your room that's gross and disrespectful. I think you should calmly talk to them about how it made you feel instead of yelling and make them realize why it was bad.
i agreed on being disrespectful... kinda of awkward..
why can't they do it in their own room
I know people will say that they pay the mortgage yada yada, but its still their child. Had you been under the age of 18 then I would fully agree with you. But now that you are over the age of 18 I'm 50-50 with it. It does seem inconsiderate.
lol ffunny... you and your parents are both right
Burn the sheets and do t visit for a good while.
I really can't believe that so many people are siding with random fucking anywhere in the house. Same logic as "I bought the jar of PB so I can fuck it and tell no one". Just sick. Hopefully they'll try to make it up to you by buying a new mattress. Your behavior was completely justified.
You should have sex in their bed and see how they react.
HAHAHA
oh please, you are so Nieve, they most likely done it in every room of the house, the kitchen, the bathroom on the toilet, the living room on the couch you sit on, they most likely did it in your room when you were a kid when you stayed over at a friends house so its no surprise they did it when in your room when you were at college, you prob interupted them when they were trying to do it again in ever room of the house.
just be lucky you didn't walk in the living room with them doing it on the couch or you dad giving it your your mum doggystyle lol
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yeah
Lol they made you so they can do whatever they want
Even kill me?
Actually I agree with the MH guy. If it's your room then they are invading your privacy, regardless if the room is part of the house they own. Well now you have something against them. If you wanna one day---you know--- in their bedroom because they have a tempur pedic or soemthing then they can't really blame you
that's kinda shocking but... try to let it go
can you just be glad your parents are alive, well, together and happy? wtf i mean how rare is that sounds like an episode of growing pains.
Can't they be happy I stand up for myself? and the second sentence I can't tell what your message is you're trying to get across to me. Please rephrase.
imagine them dead. now be thankful for what you have.
Imagine me to scared to defend myself. I'm getting over it. I'm just venting.
scared to defend yourself against what?
Imagine them dead for what?
please reread what i wrote.
I know I should appreciate them being here. But why did they have to bonk in my room the same day I'll be sleeping there. Are they trying to hurt my feelings or be disrespectful or something? Forget that! I'm letting them know what they did is wrong. We'll get through it.
good. communicate. work it out.
It's always more exciting in someone else's bed. ;) Grow up, their house their rules.
But it's gross and disrespectful! I know the response would be very different if it was me and some guy having sex in their bed.
It's their house, their room, and it's probably their bed also. Don't like it? Get your own god dam place and bed. Thanks for the down-vote.
When I get my place and have kids I won't have sex in their room because it's disrespectful. And you're welcome for the down vote. ;) I reported you too.
When you get your own place then it'll become your rules. Until then, deal with it. Thanks for down-vote and report I appreciate it.
You should ask her "Mom are you gonna happy if I have sex with someone else in your room.". COZ that will make them understand what they were doing and how it feels to you.
Hahaha...
Love your attitude and you're so cute.
Well i believed they can't hold it anymore and your room is the nearest lockable room. haha.
But why would they need to have sex in my room when they have their own and they were by themselves at the time. And my room has no lock. Only our front and back doors do.
Lets say im your father and why i need to have sex in your room? 1. if your room located at the nearest ramp/landing of the stairs most like they dont have the time to go to their room. 2. They are comfortable of using your room and i believed this is not the first time that they used your room. 3. Windows. 4. Accessible to kitchen.
And these 'points' prove what? It's okay to have disregard for someone's feelings because their lazy to walk a few more feet?
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You are really weird, I hope you do something that makes your kids hate you so they abandon you. You are alive because they were the ones who took care of you, up until the point where you abandoned them. Yes it was disrespectful from them but it doesn't deserve all that.
That's funny
hahahahahahahahahaha LMAO!!! Your parents are awesome!!!
Hmm this urks me.
hey this is just me. don't get upset girl.
Okay, but I'm upset because they had sex where I was going to sleep. It's rude, even more so when they have their own bedroom.
I understand.
If you ain't paying no rent you have no say. Simple as that.
That. Is. Trifilin. Oh my god
You're right to feel pissed off. I don't care if they own the house or not you're their child and they owe you respect. What they did is fucking disgusting and if I were you I would stop staying over as well. If they're having sex on your bed there's probably no place in the house that was left untouched.