My period is over but im slightly spotting should I still tell my boyfriend this before he tries to give oral/ have sex ( I feel a bit embarressed)?

To tell him
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Im slightly spotting there's like nothing there
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Now the spotting is gone
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  • Good to here about the spotting being gone but if I were you I'd try to go by yourself to the general doctor and if not, go to a pharmacy and try to wait for or find a female pharmacist to discreetly ask the spotting maybe even write it down. I know, myself, if I was in a pinch with money and I had something getting funky down there I'd either double check web md or I'd brave the pharmacist knowing that while arkwardness may result, I'd think that them selling personal area creams, protective pads and sexual products, that it's highly unlikely it would be arkward, just maybe that they might not have experienced it come across it before. But I'd say, just ask someone to see if it's normal just to feel better. here is an article I found on it

    • But I'm also a little unfamiliar with this too 😅 so girls on here might be able to have a greater commentary on it 😅 my thoughts are it's probably not a big deal though 🤔

    • Although it feels like you probably already know that too 😂 After reading it again I'm probably a little stupid going through the whole asking process 🙈 but it does never hurt to ask questions if you are unsure about something

    • Lol spotting is normal on your last period days that means that your period is ending it's nothing major 😂

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  • Oh waw didn't expect oral to be part of his book of tricks that's impressive.

    Having tried full on period sex I can tell you that a warning is highly appreciated.
    Nothing embarrassing about telling him it's natural not something you did wrong.
    But not telling him and then he gets to play dracula by surprise is embarrassing so chose wisely the outcome you want

    • Ofc I would tell him if it’s heavy but by spotting I meant that my discharge was slightly pink so I didn’t know if it was necessary because of that lol because it’s not messy at all and barely nothing

    • I considered it to be the end of my period

    • I get that I'm just saying in general and for future reference there's nothing embarrassing about speaking about these things, if he's mature enough to have sex he's mature enough to be able to handle these things or at the very least hear about them

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah tell him.. you want it to be clean down there to get an oral.

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  • Definitely tell him. But understand, spotting is just what women do, just like guys have balls and erections. It's nothing to be embarrassed about.

  • No need to feel embarrassed. This is perfectly normal and if it bothers him then he’s not mature enough to be dating. You should tell him. It shouldn’t prevent any sexy activities.

  • Absolutely. Not telling him may be more embarrassing if things go wrong. he's your boyfriend. he likes you. Dont worry. Just tell him. The discussion will make you stronger. Draw you together.

  • Yeah, just let him know that your not completely finished with your period, he should know what girls go through?

  • I would tell him if he tries to hive you oral.

  • I've never had a problem going down on a woman when she has her period on the lighter days. I suspect he doesn't either. I've met a few lovers who were always horny around the time of their period and it seems like criminal waste to avoid getting an attractive woman off because of minor setbacks

  • I would sure

  • Yes out of respect... and don't be it's a part of life

  • If you have any part of your period let him know to decide if he wants to have sex or wait.

  • Wait a day or tell him

  • Should tell him but never feel embarrassed about having a period

  • No longer a problem it seems, but why not tell him? It's just your period, 50% of the entire human population has it, who cares? 😂

  • Yes you definitely should

  • Tell him

  • Yeah just let him know. It’s likely not a big deal but it’s nice to let him know

  • It’s nice of you to tell.
    That would be a big turnoff if you were spotting and didn’t say anything

  • wait 1 more day, or tell him your choice

  • It would be polite to tell him and rather rude to not.

  • I say please let him know. I would want periods to be completely over. And that's me though.

  • No need to be embarrassed.

    Why wouldn't you tell him?

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