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Sexual Health My stepson asked me about sex should I answer his questions or tell his father?
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My stepson 15 and he has had gay sex and he thinks his gay.. How can he tell?
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2 34I’d tell his Dad and both of you can sit down together and talk about it. Better to answer it all at once and get it out of the way than be asked a question and accidentally give him the wrong advice. It’s better for all of you to be on the same level. The worst thing you ever want is for your stepson to get in an argument one day with his father and say, but mom told me this was ok or that.
Set down with him and talk about things... he trusts you a lot since he came to you first...
Just be honest and open when talking with him , did he like it and did it feel right to him or feel good (in all aspects of his encounter) , those types of questions... he needs to search his soul and see if he is gay or bi , either way there's nothing wrong with that
Don’t make it weird or it will likely get weird.. but if you’re uncomfortable then you do have rights too so then yes, it’s ok… are you concerned?
Oh I just read your update.. I can discuss on pm if you’d like but I do t want to embarrass the kid or you
Your picture here or in pvt helped to make more inform decision what resulted him to ask such question
Answer him (in a non-lewd way)
He is now your son, answer the question, also talk to dad
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Give him the female perspective. And also tell his father ( if he is close with his father.) Thare's a very good chance that he feel more comfortable with you so I say don't shut this door for him
Answer his question
You have to teach
Really?
Yes real
What kind of question did he ask?
Just show him since he is not blood related to you
The boy may be more comfortable asking you, but I suggest speaking with his dad first before answering to see if he is okay with it.
If his dad is homophobic you may have to take the lead on the discussions about sex. If you aren't sure if the boy is gay you may have to ask him. Having gay sex is a good indicator.
Yah his gay we talked a lot..
I would think he really appreciates having someone like you that he is comfortable with and trusts to talk about these things. 15 is a tough age.
I feel like part of parenting is making sure the both of you are on the same page on certain important topics before they get discussed with the child. I'm not saying you should punt to the father to answer, but being on the same page first might be a good idea.
How old he is?