Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Recently she is very busy and doesn't want to do it and I respect that but I have some needs so I thought I can have some fun. And she caught me watching it. I explained it to her she said that is okay at first. But after time passed she made it a big deal she keeps asking questions about what kind of styles I watch, is she enough for me, and sometimes she acts like I betrayed her. Actually I don't it regularly I just needed something to relax. She seems like she doesn't accept that. How to overcome this situation?
My wife caught me watching porn and made it a big deal. What to do?
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10 27how interesting to see the pinks saying your wife might be cheating on you. that is Understandable. I wouldn't dismiss it.
If she was shocked as a first time awareness of watching porn then there should have been a convo prior. My take is she is gonna have to accept it, maybe even view it together or solo. No spouse should have a problem with masturbation. It's normal, healthy and fun. No betrayal at all as far as the act itself. MY SO has a similar reaction, we discussed it and she accepts it but it's not for her. Just communicate.
Tell her that all guys probably watch porn at times usually to masturbate. Were u masturbating when she caught you? Tell her that it s only for entertainment and remind her of your love for her and not porn. Has it messed with your sex life with her?
I’d consider marriage counseling. You guys need to get to the root cause as to why she doesn’t want to make love. That’s an issue. Either way, I wish you the best and I hope things get better.
Make it very clear that she isn't enough for you because she isn't putting out!
She shouldn’t get mad if she doesn’t have time for you, , would she still get mad at you if you were just masturbating without porn or is it the fact you’re looking at naked women having sex? You need to ask her that question because if it’s just the fact you’re getting because she doesn’t have time for you or doesn’t want to then she Neto know you have a bigger sex drive and it’s just to relax since you’re being neglected but it could be she is insecure because you’re looking at hot women naked
She is insecure. If she doesn't take care of your needs the way she is supposed to, you have every right to be watching porn.
Sounds like she's spending more time trying to blame you instead of admitting that she doesn't want to fuck you anymore. Here's hoping you don't catch her with another man..
Show her what you like to watch, she might be into it.
Get a divorce
Repent
If she has her period then its understandable or busy in rare cases but if she's always busy then there's a problem what about night time in bed?
Dump her and let her be insecure with some other dude