My wife and I have experienced ffm before. She wants now to experience mmf?

This could damage our marriage. That's why I think I should discourage her. How should I explain this to her?
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  • Sorry son, What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Just invite a male friend that you trust and she likes.

  • lmao... good luck with that

  • Be open and frank about what bothers you about it. For example, I have ZERO interest in having sex with men.

    • Who initiated the FFM?

  • Threesomes, no matter how fun they are, are not for everyone. Have them only if all parties are absolutely comfortable about the action.

    It would only damage your marriage if one makes a huge issue about it afterwards.

    MMF can be done with two straight guys with no male-male play.

    We have had many threesomes, foursomes, & more-somes over the years with no issues. Communication and being comfortable are key to a happy experience.

  • U dont know unless u try good on your wife

  • if she wants mmf she will probably cheat on you one day or has already cheated

  • Be a man and give her that just like she gave you FFM

  • Buddy for some reason the wife was OK and apparently YOU were OK with having a ffm (threesome)
    Now she wants to try and would be comfortable with having a mmf... but yur not?
    Hmmmmm unless she wants you two guys to fool around with each other in front of her than I'd say go for it... maybe she wants a dp?

    • She said wanted to try DP. But I'm really undecided on that.

  • It's only fair don't be a dick

  • That's the reason I would say no to FFM too. Coz it is opening the box 📦 of Pandora.

  • Thats true you got your but she can't you already damaged your marriage

  • Your best bet would be talking honestly with her about it, but there is a possibility that your discomfort with it could damage your relationship too.

  • How is it fair for you to not let her explore that after exploring ffm?

  • Bah hahah if you were fine with two pussies you can’t turn down two cocks, you should have thought of this before you willingly and gleefully accepted what worked in your favor.

  • If she let you have a FFM you owe it to her to experience a MMF. Fair is fair. If the FFM didn't damage your marriage, why would a MMF?

    • We experienced it with my wife's very old close friend. She was a person we really trusted. I think mmf can be risky.

    • What's the risk? If she loves you that won't change. Make it a requirement that you and her have to agree on the other guy.

    • I don't believe there is a guy I can trust to fuck my wife.

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  • That is selfish of you. She gave you ffm, and yet you can't reciprocate mmf for her...

    • Now, before passing judgement 1st we need to know Who's idea the 3-some ffm was? If it was your wives idea, no biggie Now, if it was your idea Sit down and talk it out

    • It is simple... He didn't protest against ffm. He didn't think being in bed with two females would "ruin their marriage". But now, suddenly having roles switched and being "the other man" makes him unconformable.

    • @ Jitternation On the horror why are you assuming "most women are bi?" You do know that the real life doesn't follow the porn logic? Unless you provide trustworthy source all of your claims could just as well be considered to be just your fantasy.

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  • What is good for the goose is good for the gander. She did a FFM for you , now you should reciprocate with a MMF for her. Your wife might be a little dominant and wants to see some male on male action. Go for it and have fun.