Nearly 30% of men under the age of 30 are incel, what, if anything, should be done?

From the graph, around 1 in 3 (likely higher due to men lying about their virginity) men are effectively incel. What, if anything, should be done to combat this.

Lack of intimacy is tied to many mental disorders, not to mention the potential tax and population catastrophe waiting to happen.
Nearly 30% of men under the age of 30 are incel, what, if anything, should be done?
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  • Sounds like we have to do a better job of teaching young men social skills.

    • Young men and women alike.

    • @FreshOutaIdeas Agreed!

  • They should learn that no human is entitled to another human and get over themselves.

    • Listen, I get it. It sucks when you can't get someone who's into you, but incels don't at all acknowledge that their toxic views around being owed sex and the idea that sex is the cure to their mental illnesses and disabilities (which is not a cure for either, by the way, proper mental health coaching, psychotherapy, re-socialization and possibly medication is) are inherently toxic and self-serving. If you obsess so much over the idea that you are owed sex despite the fact that you are toxic, ill, and offering nothing but expectations, there's nothing anyone can do for you until you choose to acknowledge that you are the problem and you need help.

    • "It's your fault you're short and ugly"

    • @incelposting not going to patronize or being funny but... You just turned 18 right? So wtf you know about life, hard life, starving, sex or relationship? And what and who allow you to talk that way to @chronicthinke r? Huh? I think that a friendly slap would bring order to you! Seriously i am fading up with this fucking shit where kids thinks they can do everything and can say everything... Well you can but be ready to take consequences! Yeah... Go and make your eyebrows done boy

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  • I'm a firm believer in harnessing male sexual frustration and celibacy, and channeling it to provide various benefits for sexually active women and more masculine guys who are routinely enjoying sex with them.

    Please allow me to explain: if the powers that be, i. e., government, social services, etc, endeavor to make it less daunting for frustrated incels to have intercourse with attractive women, this will only address the symptoms of the problem, not the underlying problem itself. Rather than coddling the pathetic wimps who are hopelessly incapable of getting their dicks inside a woman's pussy, I believe they should be forced to serve the superior men and women whom they idolize.

    Whether this is accomplished by serving others as a personal maid, slave or domestic servant, or as a long term indentured laborer, etc, I think that any assistance to give them access to conventional sex should be part of a compulsory program in which they're able to repay their debt to society as a permanently celibate social outcast.

    • I don't think anyone should be overly concerned about the incel phenomenon or the fact that we're not capable of getting our dicks wet. To the contrary, I believe that both men and women must take a hard line in regards to our pathetic plight, and enforce a program of restitution to allow us to repay our debt to society, as well as the women we've harassed and objectified. Please resist any urges to sympathize with us, because if you show us any compassion, you'll only delay the inevitable -- our permanent status as losers.

  • The survey only addresses celibacy. It does not differentiate between men who are INvoluntarily celibate aka "incel" versus men who choose to be celibate. A small but statistically significant number of men choose not to have sex outside of marriage for religious, moral or cultural reasons.

    • "Lack of intimacy is tied to many mental disorders, not to mention the potential tax and population catastrophe waiting to happen." This reminds me of the argument of, "Which came first, the chicken or the egg". Lack of close relationships in a person's life can definitely affect a person's ability to cope with the rigors of life, which may lead to or worsen mental illness. On the other hand, people suffering from mental illness are likely to have more difficulty than the average person when it comes to finding and maintaining relationships with other people.

  • I think there needs to be a war.

  • Get yourself a sex robot ! Leave everyone else out of it!

    • Good one coach!

    • @shimmeryns Hey thanks!

    • Coach, when are you getting your own talk show! I want that merch!

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  • Virginity does not make you a incel. Your view of females does. If men are virgins longer its because they rather do other things than please women. But that doesn't necessarily means they have a bad view of them, they are just not worth it compared to other activities.

  • Incels can only help themselves. Which they usually refuse to do, so whatever.

    • This graph isn't just about the loud minority of incels who obviously don't want to change. It's about virgin men in general, most of whom I think try or have tried to help themselves.

    • @Lite3000 The Asker asked about incels, who are a specific kind of adult virgins. So I answered.

  • Nothing.. it’s not the worlds responsibility of you can’t get laid.

    • Exactly. 👏👏

  • This is silly

  • Nothing. Why should we care?
    Yes, lack of intimacy is something I consider an issue... but that doesn’t mean everyone should just be having sex as if that’s the answer to every problem and mental condition. How about we learn to communicate, or feel safe hugging each other (without the extra social stigmas), or cry in front of their friends and family, grow a healthy community. I guarantee those things would help with mental illness way more than boning.

    • Because men may not do these things lest they bet considered weak by females. That and unattractive men are shut out from all non familial forms of intimacy

    • That’s why I threw in the “(without the extra social stigmas)” and focused on building a healthy community. A healthy community does not neglect the emotional needs of an unattractive person just because of the way they look. A healthy community does not focus relentlessly on sexual and romantic interaction like it’s the end-all-be-all. What you are suggesting is some quick fix that doesn’t actually fix anything.

  • population catastrophe? surely if we had 30 percent les kids running round for a bit the world might have some hope of getting back to sustainable levels of human occupancy... as for the rest of it... its up to them and means more women for the rest of us anyway lol

    • An aging population with no replacement is asking for trouble

    • And there won't be more women for you. There will be more females for chad. We're approaching 99/1 rule fast.

    • you said 30 percent of men not 100 so i think thats a bit alarmist and as for your other comment, i dont know what you are trying to say

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  • Nothing can be done or should be they simply have to learn to change what is wrong

    • That's a rather dangerous statement

    • How and why sorry?

    • Hail Gilead Hail Elliot Rodger Etc. Etc. Etc.

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  • I cannot remember what incel means and I don't feel like looking it up,

  • Nothing. Not bothering me or affecting my life. I couldn't care less how they choose to live their lives.

  • The sample size on that study and the respondents location are very telling.
    That number is incredibly high compared to reality.

  • I think it should be mandatory for all women to have sex with men whenever they ask.

    • U sound like a guy using a girl account

    • I was jk. This is obviously a troll.

    • It's true tho. If rape was legal there wouldn't be anymore mass shooting. All men would be happy and sexually satisfied.

  • I'd say ban them from the internet would work wonders. I've git a lot of mental fortitude, but spending more than a few minutes in an incel forumn depresses me for the whole day.

    • "Reality is too depressing, I want to remain ignorant"

    • More like they are depressing and should be kept seperated from each other.

  • Pretty much there are many reasons behind it. Girls tend to go for the jocks or the dominant male of there group so when we talk about the declining Highschool sexual activity we are seeing it less and less do a lack of dominant males. 2 there is of course free porn why go out and look for it when your hand can do the work for you. 3 (my own opinion) the stupid metro movement and the femmist movement has poisoned men and women’s minds “ oh he glanced at my boobs sexual harassment “. Or “women don’t need men”. Which are completely lies. Men and women need each other 1 for reproductive purposes 2 for companionship 3 emotional support men and women in a relationship look to each other for support physical and emotionally. It is bad to discourage the family unit yes but the communist love breaking down family values

  • Wait isn't this what guys want? Why else would women get labelled and abused for being sexually active...

    • Hahaha! Oh shit, good one, i'm stealing that.

    • Not all guys but yeah it's totally ironic when incels complain about women being sluts.

    • ... how is it ironic that men who choose not to date are mad at women being sluts? Maybe they want a nice girl but have had too many close calls with sluts and gave up? Thats essentially where im at, im no virgin but I wouldn’t care if I was, the sex iv had was stupid teenage shit and didn't mean anything to me... And yeah she was a slut, just like all the other girls iv been close to romantically. The one girl I really did consider getting into a relationship with was secretly blowing my best friend while begging me to date her and wondering why I was hesitant. Trust your gut guys

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