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There's NEVER a "good" reason to share nudes first.
There's only one situation I can think of where you'd want to do that, and that's if both of you are interested only in sex and nothing else. However, it's still risky. You have to absolutely certain the guy can be trusted, and if sex is the goal, that likelihood decreases. What if he's scamming you just for the pic? What if he has no intention of hooking up but just wants your pic to spread around the internet while he slut shames you, because he's a fucked up freak?
I agree with C. Masters - if you're in it for a relationship, the rest comes first. If he really likes you, he'll likely really like your body. If he's more interested in your body than the rest of you, it's just a hook-up in the end anyway. So DO NOT do it.
Nope, don’t do it.
it’s you as a person they want or should want, if it’s simply your body, then walk.
the reality of sending naked pics is not them going mmmm lovely but, “oh you seen how her pussy lips are” or “what do you think of her boobs”
basically a discussion about your body.
i say this as I’ve done it before.
personally it’s far better leaving it as clothed shots if you send, even then they have met you and everyone has agreed to a meet up.
surprises are often better.
also you saying “oh it looked bigger in the photo” may not go down well lol.
it’s you as a person they like, so just go with that and giving someone else naked photos pretty much means you lose rights over your body when they post them on Instagram or Fetlife etc.
Surprised.
Nudes are risky behavior in probably any settings. What if he loses his phone? What if he sends it to friends? Nudes raise many questions. In some cases, it can backfire on the excitement factor.
So it's better to just come out naked in front of your partner, before having sex, rather than sending nudes.
Personally I think nudes is just so sketchy. He could do anything with them
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Not a fan of sending nudes. You want to do something like that, just get naked in person before hand.
as someone who does not want to see their nudes on the internet, as a general rule i just don't send any
That's my usual policy as well!
You should definitely start sending nudes before having sex... This having a great deal of bonus pros and will motivate both of them to become more physical and experienced
It's not going to matter really, because sex without commitment is always just going to waste your time anyway.
Video Games waste time as well, but just like meaningless sex... it makes people feel better, and it's fun! 😁
Video games also don't cause stress and emotional baggage lmao
Meaningless sex doesn't carry stress or emotional baggage. You put the game in the Xbox... play til your done... then move on to the next game. No stress or emotional baggage. You just enjoy your time with the game. You may even come back to play a game two or three times. That's fine as well. 😉
Once you send them they are out there forever... Please have some morals.
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