On a scale of 1-10 How IMPORTANT is sex in a relationship?

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Be honest give your honest opinion! Keep it 100!!!

Potatoempn · Accepted Answer

Anybody who says anything less than 10 is full of crap, or just has no desire to have sex with anybody.
Honestly, as a human there are only two things more intimate:
Soul Bonding
Tantric Sex

Seeing as we can't do Soul Bonding, and Tantric sex is nigh impossible (aka probably bs)... sex, and good sex, is integral to a relationship.
If you are not having sex, you notice a drift. You start talking about silly shit that means nothing to either of you, you end up sleeping in separate beds...

PhantomTeichou · Accepted Answer

Sex is what differentiates between friends and lovers. If there is no sex, for me, then we’re just friends without benefits. I’d say it’s a 10. I know people in their fifties who haven’t done it in years and they hate their marriages and wished they had different partners. Now, I don’t mean sex has to happen daily, it’s a 10 because you have to be compatible and on the same page or one that wants it more will end up resenting the other.

Js138 · Accepted Answer

It depends on your age, first of all. Teenagers and young adults may not have had that many sexual experiences in which case its perfectly understandable to be a little more guarded with sex. In your adult years, sex becomes significantly more important. Sex becomes another form of expression and communicating your love and desire for your partner. Taking away that closeness your normally share with your partner can have devastating consequences!

Pink1996 · Accepted Answer

Its around 5 or 6 for me but i know my boyfriend wants more he's probably a 10. More than sex I feel I need someone emotionally more that would be a 10 but thats another story haha

witherwing · Accepted Answer

Around 6-7, intercourse itself is probably like a 2, but other things related to sex are important to me.

XRabbitHeartX · Answer

For me, it's like a 8 on a scale of 1-10.

teddybeer · Answer

It's paramount! I adamantly vote 12!

Shyy503 · Answer

8/10 ..

colleennkyle · Answer

I'd say 8-9..

Cuteusernamehere · Answer

Not gonna lie it's definitely a 10. (If it's a relationship that sex was already on the table not a new one where that hasn't happened yet) Without the intimacy, connection and pleasure that comes with sex the relationship wouldn't be worth it to me.

dogbert444 · Answer

Long term, it rates a 10.  For dating, in the early stages, it isn't that important.

SymyLove · Answer

If day around a 6-7.

lellol · Answer

For me sex is 8.5 but cuddling and sleeping together is 10

PrincessPie · Answer

3-4. its nice but not important to me.

-Beonkia · Answer

About a 5 or 6. Not too important to me

melanieeeB · Answer

I will go with an good 8

Robbey · Answer

Around 6ish.  It's important, but there are a lot more important things

TheIceCreamQueen · Answer

Very. I would say 10/10 but I'm talking about marriage.

lyannamormont · Answer

6 or 7

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

pretty high up there dude

sawno · Answer

In a sexually committed relationship its a 10/10 important.
I am prepared to wait up to 2 years (Which i believe is long enough for the infatuation to fade and really know you got a mature relationship), but i would never commit sexually if there was no sex involved.

HonestGirlAlways · Answer

Maybe a 9

notallthere98 · Answer

0 for me. Maybe even in the negatives...

ClaireHofmann · Answer

Like a 9. It's very important to me.

Dude55 · Answer

10, without sex you've just got a friendship.

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