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Women; if your guy wanted sex but you didn't would you give him oral and/or a hand job instead? To please and satisfy him? Or would you rather him wait for you to want it or rather him masturbate? Men; if you wanted sex but your women didn't would you be happy to receive oral and/or a hand job instead? Or would you rather wait for her to want it? Or would you rather masturbate? Personally I like to give him oral and/or a hand job if he wants sex and I don't.
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 56it's a twofold, if i really wanted sex because of something that she did or said, i would be okay with oral, hand job as long as i can do the same to her.
Then there are times where i would like sex because well i enjoy it with her but I wouldn't be mad or pressure her, i could wait.
yesw, and have to say i enjoy it.
Go All out instead of that! If not then just Netflix and chill LOL
I would take the hand or blow job now, because you'll still get the sex later when she's ready.
A bj is always good... but with out sex its kinda borning
I would rather wait until she wanted sex
I prefer oral
in this case i love a good hand job. as long as she edges me
Oral and hand job is fine and dandy
Yes, I would take oral and a handjob from you anytime
@RastaMahn Ha! Ty
I would be happy with oral or a hand job. If she was willing to give, I'd always be happy to accept that over masturbating.
Either way or ask her if I can masturbate in front of her
Either or. Pussy is good. But if I want it and she doesn't... Then whatever she wants to do... Is fine... Not going to force her... But to me a woman that loves to give oral is hella sexy... If I have a girl, I don't usually masturbate as much..
Yes Beejay
I'll wait until she's in the mood because enthusiasm is the biggest turn on for me.
Wow so many great responses. You ladies are wondeful and caring. Your men are very lucky. Well my preference would be either oral or handjob. . I wouldn't mind eating her pussy out while I masturbate also.. lol.. but naw.. fuck waiting.. that's so wrong to make your SO wait.. well if it's a short wait I understand.. like hours.. but not days.. some people are selfish to do that.. just my opinion.
i would rather wait for her to want it
I'd want her to please me, if she still didn't want to then I would masturbate.
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I’ll eat her out if she wanted that. 😅
It is fun to do.
Waiting is more romantic if she handles me in a loving manner and makes me understand her inability to please me at that moment. If she makes eye contact and understands my feelings, I can waite the whole night. But trust me, the bedstand might fall when I waite and then we do it... All hell breaks loose... Hope she likes it if the ground beneath her shakes, coz it does...