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Sexual Health Please help! How do I tell my boyfriend I tested positive for an STD?
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I tested positive. How do I tell my boyfriend or should I not say anything?
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After four years of his nonsense, he broke up with me, trashed my parents house, broke my car window and took my cellphone. He took my umbrella because he got it for me.
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36 89tell him now
By telling it face to face in person.
Did you cheat?
How could you not say anything? That's not something you keep to yourself.
Yes it was a mistake.
@Asker How the hell could he want a used trash bag like you? You certainly don’t deserve him. Best that you leave the relationship and find a simping white knight that tolerates your behavior.
Say, but not gonna lie, I'd leg it if I heard,
You have to say, shame on you if you dont, if you break up you have ruined him
It's not a matter of do you or not, you must
It depends on STD and also that means either you were unfaithful or he was..
tell him
He’s gonna think you cheated on him... unless he cheated on you and you got it from him
Just be straight forward and tell him.
You better say something you damn fool you stop it with you
How'd you get it? cheating?
You need to tell him! You will infect him to if you dont. STDs cause a lot of health issues if the person isn't aware of them.
Also depends on the STD, so try and resolve your std first. If its curable cure it!, if it isn't ask your doctor what you can do to prevent spreading it etc
Is it a virus or a bacteria. Either way you should tell him.
syphilis.
would you want your boyfriend to tell you when he has an std?
You should absolutely tell him.. Do you know if he is positive.. did you catch it from him. did you catch it before him.. Did you cheat on him and catch it?
upon reading your response to @olderandwiser you absolutely need to tell him and then break up.. Abuse does not justify cheating.. You both are terrible people. Him for the abuse, you for the cheating.
Don't be a wh*re perhaps?
Aoky
How you think you got it? Did you sleep with someone else?
Is it viral or bacterial?
I hope it is a curable disease
If you are having sex with him, you are morally obligated to tell him.
Start with sorry.
do you know if he infected you? was it from someone before you got with him? tell him, but be ready for lots of questions?