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STORY— He joked about hitting a woman. I was like, I dont play that. Then he tried to explain the only time he would. I told him i didn't wanna hear it. Then he followed up with “Well i already have a restraining order against me. Someone on the rival team ran up on me. I punched him one good time. They had to call an ambulance. His mom got involved and took me to court. They charged me with misdemeanor assault/battery and told me, either a year in jail or 3 years of probation with community service and paying dudes ambulance fees. They also sent me to anger management classes.”
QUESTION— How could one punch send someone to the hospital? aren't restraining orders for if you repeatedly harass someone? Jail for one punch? Anger management must be a hell of a course because he always seemed as sweet as can be. I’m uneducated on this subject so thats why im asking why the story sounds like a lot is being left out. Anyways, I was already leaving him because he's obsessed with anal and that ain't my style. I dont even like when he calls me sweet cheeks anymore because im starting to see why. But this story just topped the ballpark for me 🙈🤦‍♀️
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To clarify, i said i didn't wanna hear about the one time he’d hit a woman. So he switched over to when he got in a fight with a male teammate and a 20 year old teammate tried to tackle him from behind while he was trying to fight someone else. He himself is almost 30. Also, i told him i wasn't about anal but he kept tryna tell stories to get me into it. Automatic turnoff and i kept cutting him off. he's never come across as verbally aggressive to me but im tryna head out either way
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To clarify further, I wouldn't say he was bragging about this fight. He seemed emotional when telling it and i could tell he seemed nervous to tell the details (yet he brought it all up without me asking). He was also nervous to tell me about his custody battle. Then again, he told me he got into it with his exes new man. He said the man called the cops on him for doing something. He told me the cops just asked questions and left. But come to think of it, it was prob another physical fight 🤦
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  • The story about the fight makes sense. Even mutual combat that results in an injury could end up with charges and the "victim's" attorney could quite likely file a restraining order to improve the legal case.

    • Oh wow

    • Now the one good punch could break a jaw, break a nose, or some such. The sports team may have called the ambulance because of policy and the injury wasn't that bad hard to say.

  • First off, a joke is a joke, no matter how unfunny you think it may be, but that's besides the point. About the punch, yes, it adds up. The law isn't black and white and it can absolutely be fucked up. You can be arrested and charged for telling someone to fuck off if they have a good enough lawyer and are stacked enough.

  • You can certainly send someone to the hospital with one punch if the damage is severer enough like if you pop a blood vessel or your wearing a ring and cut someone real bad in the face or you break his nose, stuff like that.

    • Oh dang

  • Honestly it makes sense to me. However it sounds very colorful. Like 80% of the story is believable

    • Yea i just know im bout to leave tho lol

  • does not add up at all, especially the battering part. punching someone in the face isn't battering, now punching someone nonstop in the face while they're down and defenseless is.

    he sounds like a pathological liar trying to show off and make a story for himself

    • He was emotional when telling me so i wouldn't say he was showing off. But yea i assumed battery was from repetitive punching although he clains it was just one punch

    • a lot of times pathological liars are just that good at lying

  • If done properly one punch can do a lot of damage, so it's reasonable that the person was sent to the hospital.
    You probably can't get a restraining order for that cause that's just sued for assault.
    Restraining orders are for mutliple assualts onna single person which means he hasn't told you the full story.
    Major major red flag.

    • Yes finally someonee is saying what i thought! I figured restraining orders are for repeated offenses

    • Yeah one single incident is usually seen as an isolated incident and doesn't warrant a restraining order unless the victim is absolutely scared of the possibility that it may happen again. So either the fight was way worse than what he said or there are other incidents he's hiding.

  • He sounds like a liar to me! 100%
    A lot of guys lie about fighting experience to seem cool or tough.
    Hitting women isn't a joke either. And if that is true he will probably be abusive later on.
    Also anal is for people who watch a lot of porn. Every other porno is about sodomy.

    So yeah. there you go, potential liar, porn addict, and potentially abusive...

    • Lmao hot damn 🤣 but you're probably right

    • Gotta keep it real :)

  • Well for the question of, "could one punch land someone in the hospital",

    Having a martial arts background myself, I could definitely affirm, if the guy knows how to hit, most definitely the right punch could land someone in the hospital.

    You can actually kill someone with one hit (don't ask me how, because I'm not going to tell lol).

    But yes, the right person, one punch could really do some damage.

    • Well dang. didn't realize

    • Yeah, once you learn about that type of vulnerability in the human anatomy, you see just how vulnerable we all are.

  • the story does add up to me 100% you should never hit a woman inless its in the bedroom and toy are smacking her ass

    • He didn't hit a woman. He hit a man

    • @DizzyDesii my bad sorry it was a long day of work for me i miss understood

  • Dude sounds like a douche.


    Yes it's possible to knock someone out in one hit and you could get a restraining order out on someone from a single incident. That's usually done when there is a chance that the 2 individuals will be in the same vicinity and one fears for their safety. He's either very violent or just trying to talk himself up.


    I wouldn't talk to this guy just because he brags about hitting a woman. That's kinda dirty.

    • he's actually quite sweet.. to me. But yea this story scared me almost as much as the anal. And he didn't brag about hitting a woman. He plays sports with some dudes and durint a fight with another dude, his 20 year old teammate tried to jump in and tackle him. he's almost 30 himself

    • Joke, brag, it's about the same thing.

  • How could one punch send someone to the hospital? -- Easy. One punch can break your jaw, knock your eyeball loose, crack a rib or two, etc.

    aren't restraining orders for if you repeatedly harass someone? -- It doesn't have to be repeated. A judge can grant a restraining even before an act takes place, in some cases.

    Jail for one punch? - Obviously true.

    And what does "someone on a rival team RAN UP ON ME mean?" ?

    • He was fighting someone and another teammate tried to tackle him from behind. It was gonna be 2 on 1. So he turned around and punched the kid who ran up

    • In that case, he had a shitty lawyer... a REALLY shitty lawyer, or he had no lawyer at all.

    • Probably

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  • I once heard of a man uppercutting a man so hard he shoved his bottom jaw into his brain, a punch can do some damage in the right spot.

    Also some people are sensative and will over react.

    My dad told me if a woman ever put hands on me do the same to her, you'd likely show more restraint than with a man, but the bitch slap cannot be under estimated either and before you say anything just admit some people in situations need the ish slapped out of them.

    • Yea but he hit a man. Check the update

    • If i read that right, any one ever asks you about anal etc and your not cool with it just look him dead in the eye ballz and say ,, so will you let me put Somthing in your butt before mine?,, 90% of guys will just get that uncomfortable may be straight maybe gay look in their eye and say no, I remember when I saw a pic of Amanda cerny pre cash begging and was like ,, what if she wanted to fo me in the butt?,, would I? And to mu shame I said know what may be I would if she whispered Somthing nice and rubbed my tummy a little, last part is a joke but I told my bros that and they where dying.

    • Yea he made it clear he wasn't about butt stuff when this porn vid was about to start rimming 🤣 we were both like, hell no cut it off

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  • Temporary restraining orders can be giving with little or no evidence. So, very well it could be he was issued one with one incident and 1 punch could kill someone if they have underlying issues or fall and hit the ground wrong. You have to ask more questions and try to get a feel for the guy. If he is emotional about it and you can tell he has remorse than you have to either accept it or not. People do things that they wish can be taken back. If he's violent or aggressive with others frequently and not with you he could just be violent and you haven't given him a reason yet. Too hard to tell without knowing the dude. You have to go with what your gut is telling you. Question him and try to remember his answers and see if he's lying to you. Always have a plan to keep yourself safe.

    • Yea i really was starting to like him but even aside from the fight, he's all about anal so i had already lost interest

    • It's okay for him to be interested in anal sex with you. Now, if he forces it then that's different. We all see life different and have different fantasies. My wife never had anal until me. Now she loves it and has intense orgasms from it. We only do it a few times a year because I'm not THAT into it but you have to keep your sex life fun/new.

    • Yea thats not a way i wanna keep fun. I dont want a guy who even wants to try and i make that clear to men early on. Some constantly beg. So im leaving

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  • you could punch someone to the hospital if you know where to hit..
    you can get a jail time for that too..
    anger menagement I don't know anything bout it.
    story sounds like some guy trying to play the tough guy, and a badass (which doesn't work as we can see that with you)

    he does sound like a loser anyways. also the pervy anal obsession adds up what im saying about the guy.
    sweet 'cheeks' means your ass looks lovely.. which is good you dont like it..

    well.. i am glad i see some intelligent woman today :D

    • Haha and Check updates above as well

    • well.. i've seen the question in the live feed :) replied as i saw.. srry :) but i'll still point these things out with the updates..

  • Just run cuz I'm sure you can do better then him especially if he is telling you he hit a woman already that makes me think he is giving you a heads up not to giving I or he will hit you!

    • He hit a guy. He was telling me that there's one time that he’d deem it necessary to hit a woman but i said dont tell me. Check updates


  • I agree with you 100% like wtf.

    • Yea im confused

    • Is he a boyfriend or a person you have intereste in

    • Yea we were talking but im about to drop lol

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  • You can knock someone out with a punch, it just depends on where you hit them. If he has martial art experience or he's hit that guy or other people before then the judge's ruling makes sense. You will probably have to accept guys who like a anal. It's wrong if he tries to force you, but not wrong if he likes it and wants to do it with you.

    • I won't accept it. I’ll just find someone whos not into it

    • I wouldn't do it with a girl who didn't want it, but it wouldn't mean I don't like it.

  • Okay, just kidding here but boy, you can pick them huh? lol

    First off, you can hit someone hard enough in the chest to make their heart skip a beat or cause problems. You can also hit someone in the nose and break it or force it up into their brain and do serious damage.
    Assault yes, battery yes. Mom involved? was it on here property? if the guy is 18 or older she should not have any say in what happens unless it was on her property. If prior restraining orders or involved then the cops could have taken him to jail and anger management classes would be in order.

    Leave him for your own good and well being and hope he doesn't get mad about it... have cops on speed dial. lol

    • He told me the fight was a at a soccer game. They were both on opposing teams. And yea im leaving

  • Get away from him he's very toxic to be around honey

    • I am. I mean he's never showed signs but im about to start fading out on him since i dont like to straight up ghost

    • Someone like him should be in jail

    • From one punch?

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  • His story seems a little far-fetched. One punch could certainly send a person to the hospital, but don’t understand “his mom” taking him to court. I’d get away from this guy!

    • The guy who jumped in the fight.. he turned around and punched that guy. The guy who got punched got his mom involved. She took my guy to court

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