Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health STORY— He joked about hitting a woman. I was like, I dont play that. Then he tried to explain the only time he would. I told him i didn't wanna hear it. Then he followed up with “Well i already have a restraining order against me. Someone on the rival team ran up on me. I punched him one good time. They had to call an ambulance. His mom got involved and took me to court. They charged me with misdemeanor assault/battery and told me, either a year in jail or 3 years of probation with community service and paying dudes ambulance fees. They also sent me to anger management classes.”
QUESTION— How could one punch send someone to the hospital? aren't restraining orders for if you repeatedly harass someone? Jail for one punch? Anger management must be a hell of a course because he always seemed as sweet as can be. I’m uneducated on this subject so thats why im asking why the story sounds like a lot is being left out. Anyways, I was already leaving him because he's obsessed with anal and that ain't my style. I dont even like when he calls me sweet cheeks anymore because im starting to see why. But this story just topped the ballpark for me 🙈🤦♀️
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To clarify, i said i didn't wanna hear about the one time he’d hit a woman. So he switched over to when he got in a fight with a male teammate and a 20 year old teammate tried to tackle him from behind while he was trying to fight someone else. He himself is almost 30. Also, i told him i wasn't about anal but he kept tryna tell stories to get me into it. Automatic turnoff and i kept cutting him off. he's never come across as verbally aggressive to me but im tryna head out either way
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To clarify further, I wouldn't say he was bragging about this fight. He seemed emotional when telling it and i could tell he seemed nervous to tell the details (yet he brought it all up without me asking). He was also nervous to tell me about his custody battle. Then again, he told me he got into it with his exes new man. He said the man called the cops on him for doing something. He told me the cops just asked questions and left. But come to think of it, it was prob another physical fight 🤦
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I know im leaving
It depends on certain States and certain counties. If you know how to hit someone, one punch is all you need. It's funny how the court and the government and the police doesn't want any violence but they promote quite a bit of it themselves lol such as if somebody punched you in the throat, you're going to have to go to the hospital if you don't die from suffocating. There are many different circumstances of why they would automatically put a restraining order against somebody.
Yea and forgot to mention, he's almost 30 years old. He beat up someone whos like 20
That's just wrong. There's really no reason to hurt someone unless... They need it 🤣🤣🤣
The guy ran up on him and tried to jump him while he was tryna get at another teammate during a fight
Smh... sounds like plain stupid shit. We're supposed to talk about our differences not beat each other up or whatever the start of the entire incident was about LOL After High School we are supposed to graduate into adulthood. It's really sad how I see our society it's so not like that and it should be.
Guys are aggressive in soccer
Well, it depends on which state you live in. A hit is a hit. Unfortunately. You can slap someone on the arm. And they can call it assault.
The one punch thing is real. I have knocked guy's out with one punch. I have broke guy's jaws with one punch. I have shattered guys eye socket with one punch. And thats with 10oz gloves. So I, know it can happen.
The anger management thing is complicated. Again, that depends on the state you live in. If they see that the whole things could have been settled calmly. And that one person caused the whole commotion. Yeah, they can make them go to anger management.
The restraining order is simple to explain. Because he assaulted another person. The courts have to put on a restraining order. Even if that person didn't want to even press charges. They have no choice.
He seems like he might try and do that. Opps I am sorry it slipped in. I have never done that to anyone. I do remember one time I, was pulling out to tease. And I went back in and it felt like it was the vag. But it wasn't. I tried to to pull out when she said wrong hole. But she wouldn't let me. Lol
Not saying his story don't add up. But, if you are no longer feeling it. Time to move on friend.
Yea im moving on before i even catch serious feels
Probably a good idea.
Sounds like he is very unstable (lots of fights), and it's only a matter of time before he hits *you*. Dump him while you can and hope he doesn't stalk you. To answer your question, one punch can easily send someone to the hospital, or in sme cases kill them (a punch to the throat). A restraining order is not unusual.
Yea im leaving 🙈
*GOOD* !!
One punch 👊 can be enough to send a person to the hospital or to the graves.
He might be telling you the true story, or there's something he haven't told you. I think you should enquire about it, but don't bother if you have decided to leave.
If a person have anger issues, living with them would be tough.
If he's changed, good for him.
I don't know about restraining orders
We werent living together. Just talkin haha
You can get restraining order for bout anything really. And I don't know him but I've had women try hit me them dare me hit them back so they could send to jail. I'm not saying i didn't do something they didn't like but it gets old. Ps. I have spanked consenting adults ok sorry
He hit a man not a woman
Men get restraining orders against me or women. It can be for spitting on someone
Against men not me*
And Google is wealth of knowledge if you need exact law
Keep listening to the alpha males in this app and you will gonna end up in a coffin. Probably he is an abuser with anger problems. Run away
Yea i left
I dislike hot headed and hit guys. Don't be with a person or situation u don't feel safe. One hit can be a slap, kick or a thrash for which he can be under bars. it depends on the state also. And dear y u don't like anal.. i like it and do it in a very cool style.. haha.. joking. Don't do it if u r not comfortable with it
How could one punch send someone to the hospital? knocking the guy down, can send him to hospital, or to checked, or maybe he fell and hurt his head
aren't restraining orders for if you repeatedly harass someone? i dont think so
Jail for one punch? hard to believe
Yea I don't know
I agree lol
With what part?
How many times have you hit a man?
He did not hit a woman. In the story he hit a man...
no I’m asking you how many times you’ve hit a guy
And im asking why you’re anon if you're gonna come at me. Any boy I've hit as a kid has likely hit me back which is why i dont hit men
i’m not coming at you and me being anonymous has nothing to do with the validity or my question or my answers